chelle21689 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) I don't know why but I get so annoyed at people when they make a huge deal of who they find good-looking as if they're about to explode in their pants. Especially with men. They see a average girl with a fit body and get boners. Women make a huge deal about magic mike and go crazy. I've seen the movie, it has sexy dance moves but I'm not acting like some hormonal teenager. I see attractive guys and think they're good-looking. I don't normally act "crazy" unless I have a huge crush on a celebrity which is very rare and always short-lived. I saved the "drooling" for my boyfriend though who I find very attractive. I was wondering if there was anyone else out there that don't act like some hormonal raging teen over some piece of skin shown. Maybe I'm just a bit more picky. My bf is kind of the same way. It's funny because we both have the same taste...I know what he thinks is pretty and not...we have same tastes in so many things.I think I find how a person IS more attractive than just looks. But of course there are some few who I find very good-looking and very attracted to. But there are guys such as Mario Lopez, Brad Pitt, or whoever that some people see as HOT and I can see that they are attractive but I don't think they're all that handsome in my opinion. Edited August 2, 2012 by chelle21689
ThaWholigan Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I don't know about you but attractive women give me boners by default, not much I can do about that But yeah, I understand that. I meet so many good looking people (of both genders) that it doesn't really strike me as much as it did when I was a teen. Good looking people are all over the shop. Some people just love attractive people a lot, it may be a rarity in their lives, or it could just be the fantasy of that person that really resonates with them. That's the way I see it. 4
BellaMarieOC Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Haha, I thought I was the only one who couldn't understand they hype with Magic Mike. I really have no desire to see a movie about male strippers. I was chatting with my friend who was extremely excited to see the movie and she couldn't understand why I had no desire to see it just because it has attractive topless men in it. The only person who makes me drool is my BF. I don't really pay attention to people's looks enough to know if they'd make me drool or not. They are a person, not someone I'd think about in a sexual way. Maybe it's a single thing?
Cracker Jack Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Like Who, a sexy woman can often wake me up down there, but other than that, I see no reason to be hype about it. Been around or friends with many attractive women in my life. It's honestly not a big deal to me. I have no problem enjoying the look of a beautiful woman, but it's nothing more than that. I simply continue on with my day. I've seen guys get all loud and silly whenever a beautiful woman would walk by, and reactions like that often forced them to speed up their walking, lol. 2
Almond_Joy Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Same here. I only find a handful of men attractive based on looks alone. I'm rarely ever turned on by someone I don't know personally - it doesn't make sense to be attracted to a package if I don't know what's in it. That's the way I look at it, and my sex drive isn't really strong enough to override that reasoning lol. 2
verhrzn Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 When dating someone, I am ALL about drooling all over them. I am a very open admirer of their body. But up until that point, I do my very best clam impression. Even if I find them drop-dead gorgeous, I will not even twitch my face into a smile for fear of being accused of being needy or creepy. In other words... drooling over guys who I am not dating is a waste of time.
iris219 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 No, I don't drool over random attractive people. It's one of the reasons I can't do OLD. Seeing a photo of a good looking guy on there does nothing for me. I have no desire to date or sleep with someone simply because he is attractive. Most women need an emotional connection in addition to mere good looks to be crazy about a guy. 2
sally4sara Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I usually see this kind of behavior out of very young people. Eh, I figure they are just young and asserting their sexuality because its all new to them. The ones that are old enough to behave more maturely I always wonder if they are going overboard because they are not of the sexual orientation they hope people think they are so they play it up to hide being gay or because they are newly out of the closet and high on the fact that they don't have to hide over who they find attractive anymore.
Author chelle21689 Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) Haha, I thought I was the only one who couldn't understand they hype with Magic Mike. I really have no desire to see a movie about male strippers. I was chatting with my friend who was extremely excited to see the movie and she couldn't understand why I had no desire to see it just because it has attractive topless men in it. The only person who makes me drool is my BF. I don't really pay attention to people's looks enough to know if they'd make me drool or not. They are a person, not someone I'd think about in a sexual way. Maybe it's a single thing? Probably a "single" thing although there are some in relationships that do that way although I find it kind of disrespectful if the partner feels bothered by it. I do notice and acknowledge hot people but I don't make a huge deal about it. My cousin's eyes go big when she sees hot muscular guys and squeals lol NOW that I think about it, when I was single (it was for a short while) I began checking guys out a lot more and going a little bit hormonal. Not crazy but I think it's just "fun" or just "scoping" for the next guy in a way. Not to say I acted like an animal but I was a bit more "crazy" when I was single...if you'd call it crazy, I don't know what to call it. It wasn't until I met my bf when it was a huge slap in the face when I realized how handsome he was and got to know him. Just his overall vibe drew me in like no other guy. Edited August 2, 2012 by chelle21689
Taramere Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I don't drool over fit bodied men, but I like looking at them. When I was in my teens I was more inclined to turn glaikit at the sight of somebody I fancied or talk about them in an excited, dramatic sort of way with friends. If you're watching a film with a friend, it can be fun to ooh and ahh over a good looking male lead. I don't really know why it's fun...it just is. It's good to have a bit of froth and frivolity in life sometimes. 2
proseandpassion Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I have very peculiar tastes. I have to know someone's mind to find them completely droolworthy. That being said, I very rarely see someone in person who makes my eyes pop out of my head like Roger Rabbit. HOWEVER, I am far more prone to do this with women! (I am bisexual) I turn into a blushy, stammering IDIOT if I find a girl super cute. (My taste in women is also somewhat peculiar... I prefer a super curvy, voluptuous pinup girl type with glasses) 1
verhrzn Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 That said, sometimes "I wanna get with that" expressions are pretty funny. Today's entry: "I would bang him like a screen door in a hurricane." ... I might also drool a *tiny bit* in the privacy of my own home to Sherlock Holmes. Not Benedict Cumberland. Sherlock Holmes. My goodness what is wrong with me? 1
AD1980 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Im waiting for the day a women tolerates me physically never mind drools
CarrieT Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 The two receptionists in my office kept telling me about this one guy that made their knees weak. When I realized who it was, I was shocked - he's just an ordinary guy to me... To each his own! 1
Janesays Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I'm not a very visual person, so I don't really notice whether or not people are 'attractive.' It's been a weird quirk of mine ever since I was a little girl and my Mom pointed out that my best friend was fat....and I swear to God I didn't notice until she said something. If someone points someone out and says 'they're hot,' I'll focus in a little and be able to objectively agree. But that's only because I can understand how THEY would think so&so was hot. Not necessarily because I agree. With me, attraction usually grows as I get to know someone. Again, I know this is a weird quirk, but I've been this way my whole life. I'm just not very visual. You should come over to my place. You'll never walk into a blander, blanker more sparsely decorated home belonging solely to a woman in your whole life.
gaius Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I don't drool either. There's definitely some people who are less visual than others and I'm one of them. Erotic fiction and true stories always did way more for me than Playboy growing up. If there isn't a certain dynamic between a girl and I then I just don't care, no matter how beautiful she is. A trait some attractive women seem to appreciate oddly enough. 2
Negative Nancy Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I don't know why but I get so annoyed at people when they make a huge deal of who they find good-looking as if they're about to explode in their pants. Especially with men. Yes, I don't go crazy over good-looking people either, but good luck finding a man whose brain doesn't drop down to his pants when he sees hot women. Men are not capable of such rational things as containing themselves when they see some skin, yet they always accuse women of being more irrational. Biggest joke of the century.
USMCHokie Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I don't drool over attractive people... ...because I believe in leagues...
phineas Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 The only time I drool over an attractive woman is when I see her boobs for the first time. and the 2nd time, and the 3rd time........
RedRobin Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 'Attractive' people are just born that way... I'm not impressed by anything someone hasn't had to work for... 4
RedRobin Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I don't drool over attractive people... ...because I believe in leagues... OMG... is that you as a kid in your avatar?? That is the cutest picture ever! I always thought that happy, smiling kid pictures says a whole lot about the person they become... 5
USMCHokie Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 OMG... is that you as a kid in your avatar?? That is the cutest picture ever! Oh if you only knew... 4
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