Mariana345 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Hi! Well, some may now my history, my almost 5 years exbf break up with me two months ago. Now I'm in the point that I don't know if I really want him back (to much hurt both sides) but I come to wonder if I ever decide that I do, if I did the right things? He broke up with me, that day I begged a little, cried, ask for a chance, said I can change, but nothing. So I leave, told him I would give him time (he says he doesn't know if he could come back), and as I leave I told him that I still loved him. NC for that week. Next monday, as he erased our relationship from FB (I though we were on a break, not final) sent an email asking what was this break about, he told me it was final. So I sent another email saying if he can reconsider, didn't answer, like 20 minutes later sent another emal saying that I understood him, he was special to me, and to save some of my things that are important. NC for another week. Unfriend him from FB, erased all contact information. After I found out somethings I called him and ask my stuff back, we settled a day and more NC. He deliver my things, I (looking my best ) just took them, thanked him, say goodbye, turn and left (he kind of seemed to think I will talk to him, looked surprised). NC. He sends me a FB msg to ask me for his part of the money we were saving to live together () and I just told him I will send it to him. Did it, he said thanks and NC since then, about 1 month ago. He haven't made any contact but the FB msg for the money, I haven't contacted him either, and as we are unfriend in FB can look at what we do. Two week ago I went to travel with a friend of mine (female) and durign that trip I found out he blocked me on FB, not sure why... since I haven't said anything to him, but made me think that he is not indiferent to me, but don't know for sure. He still have some of my best friends in FB (those traitors XD just kidding) but he erased my family, even said goodbye to my sister and give away to my friend his ticket to this event in november. So, that's why I keep in NC. Do you think I acted well? If there is still a chance for us to be together in the future, do you think I left the door open for it to happen? I did the best to have the oportunity to come back?
Bobibble Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 There is always a chance, but based on what you said, the chances are pretty slim. I would say you handled it as best as you could and it is time for you to move on as he is trying to do that with cutting all ties to you.
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