SteveC80 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 It seems no matter how pretty a women is or how much external validation she may get most women i know call themselves ugly or unattractive ladies be honest here how much of that is that women for whatever reason have built im low self esteem and how much of that is really just fishing for compliments? Id imagine most at least decent looking women who get compliments and attracted men know there attractive you would think so part of me thinks its just fishing for compliments or are most women really that insecure?
Emilia Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: 1
verhrzn Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Couldn't POSSIBLY be that our society has unrealistic standards of beauty that only about 1% of the population can achieve... Or that women are judged first and foremost on their looks to determine their value as a person, and so derive their sense of esteem from how others judge them... Or that men constantly place emphasis on looks and then demand to know why women are so insecure... Nope, it must be A) women suck or B) women suck. 5
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Both. We're innately insecure creatures who are fishing for compliments. You understand us all so very well! 1
Author SteveC80 Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Couldn't POSSIBLY be that our society has unrealistic standards of beauty that only about 1% of the population can achieve... Or that women are judged first and foremost on their looks to determine their value as a person, and so derive their sense of esteem from how others judge them... Or that men constantly place emphasis on looks and then demand to know why women are so insecure... Nope, it must be A) women suck or B) women suck. Im talking about women who do well with men an are complimented a lot,i can see why a women who gets little attention from Men would be insecure Women also place a demand on looks on men of course unless a man is wealthy which in this economy is not really all that easy to pull off
Author SteveC80 Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Honestly, how many more of these threads?????? If u are on this site long enough theyres gonna be a lot of threads on the same topic why not ignore it instead of spending so much energy getting annoyed by it?
Emilia Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 If u are on this site long enough theyres gonna be a lot of threads on the same topic why not ignore it instead of spending so much energy getting annoyed by it? Because I am genuinely curious as to why you guys feel you have to ask the same questions over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again.
Lonely Ronin Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Because I am genuinely curious as to why you guys feel you have to ask the same questions over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. Some don't know how to use search...
Author SteveC80 Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Because I am genuinely curious as to why you guys feel you have to ask the same questions over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. Because any site is gonna have the same topics rehashed theres only so much u can talk about, there is tons of other topics that are beatne to death also,this one for some reason seems to strike a special chord with you
jobaba Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 It seems no matter how pretty a women is or how much external validation she may get most women i know call themselves ugly or unattractive ladies be honest here how much of that is that women for whatever reason have built im low self esteem and how much of that is really just fishing for compliments? Id imagine most at least decent looking women who get compliments and attracted men know there attractive you would think so part of me thinks its just fishing for compliments or are most women really that insecure? Neither. Most people have a self esteem that is dynamic rather than static. So ... some days it will be high, some days low. But women always have their idea of where their base attractiveness lies. So, while a woman may say to me, "No boys like me. I'm not that pretty.", it means she may feel a little ugly that day, but NOT UGLY ENOUGH TO DATE YOU!
Author SteveC80 Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Some don't know how to use search... In that case no more topics should ever be made since everything has been talked about at least once WHy cant people ignore topics they dont care for or that have been talked about instead of throwing hissyfits about it? Seems like wasted energy to me
miss_jaclynrae Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I don't know what you are talking about... I think I am hot! Maybe it is because if we own up to it we are automatically considered vain, narcissistic, or stuck up. 2
Lonely Ronin Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 WHy cant people ignore topics they dont care for or that have been talked about instead of throwing hissyfits about it? Seems like wasted energy to me Why do people ask a question when they know an easily find-able answer already exists? That to seems like a waste of energy.
Janesays Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Both. Now please tell me I'm pretty before I lose my mind, slash your car tires, and set fire to your bed. 2
proseandpassion Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Because we are taught that modesty is a virtue and to act as though you're hot **** is not a good look.
Author SteveC80 Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Why do people ask a question when they know an easily find-able answer already exists? That to seems like a waste of energy. AS i said everyhtugn has probably been ediscussed here a few times lets just never make threads then again..
verhrzn Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Honestly, how many more of these threads?????? Until all the women of the world give in and start admitting that we are awful, manipulative creatures that run the world through the power of sex, get back to the kitchen/bedroom where we belong, and date whoever shows interest in us regardless of our own opinions. Really, is that so much to ask? 7
Emilia Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Because any site is gonna have the same topics rehashed theres only so much u can talk about, there is tons of other topics that are beatne to death also,this one for some reason seems to strike a special chord with you Nope there are plenty of fresh, new topics to discuss when various posters bring in their personal problems/challenges/victories or have the insight and intelligence to add something new - as opposed to post something negative about the opposite gender yet again. The millionth time. As LR suggested, you could just learn to use 'search'
Emilia Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 AS i said everyhtugn has probably been ediscussed here a few times lets just never make threads then again.. You must have a rather boring life if you think everything has been discussed that there is in the whole wide dating world. Why bother even then? If you think everything has been discussed, why not just read a book?
jobaba Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Why do people ask a question when they know an easily find-able answer already exists? That to seems like a waste of energy. If LS operated by this logic, then 90% of the posts here would be no more. -Men's height -No men in my area to date -FWB -Friendzone I'm pretty sure all those topics have been covered at least 200 times. People ask the questions because they know the same idiots will respond with the same answers. *sheepishly raises hand* No more LS for the day...
Emilia Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 No more LS for the day... Yeah I'm going home too Only the gender bashing threads that annoy me though. It's normal that people should have different takes on the same topic otherwise 1
Author SteveC80 Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Why do people ask a question when they know an easily find-able answer already exists? That to seems like a waste of energy. Heres a thread you made then a thread that that was already made on the same subject Why not just use the search button first? you-http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/308404-what-do-women-feel-about-dating-co-workers someone else-http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/174627-dating-co-workers
Lonely Ronin Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Heres a thread you made then a thread that that was already made on the same subject Why not just use the search button first? As Emilia alluded to earlier, I was looking to address & get opinions on a very specific scenario from my life, not bash the opposite gender...
ThaWholigan Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 It's the gender bashing tone of these threads that is annoying. I dislike is as much as when it is men being bashed.
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