mandala Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Hey guys, long time lurker but this is my first post. I am a 28 year old guy with not much experience with relationships and women in general. Anyway I have just came out of a long distance relationship that didn't work out so well, I found out I wasn't so "in love with her" to endure such a relation. I have been trying to be more active with my life and do stuff I always wanted so I started going to a Pilates class ( to be honest it's not Pilates, but I am afraid that my teacher also reads this forum so let's say it's Pilates). I had my first class with her, and I got attracted to her. She is an attractive woman, 4 years older than me, very warming and nice. My rational mind tells me all those qualities I mentioned above are the reason I feel attracted and that she's like that with all people. Trying something with a teacher doesn't sound such a good idea to me, I would like to know if she is interested in me not just as business\client relation but I don't want to make things awkward if I make a move and she declines... Anybody experienced something similar? This is not like when you are high school and you have a crush on your teacher, but still it's not an easy situation.
SeventhFloor Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 She may just be a nice, attractive person! I bet you're not the only one attracted to her. Just be yourself and feel it out. Take it for what it is and don't let your mind run with it. I was super attracted to my yoga instructor, she was stellar, and also a very nice woman. But I knew it was nothing more than just attraction, and wouldn't go anywhere. This may not be the case for you, just feel it out.
Author mandala Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 Thanks for replying, just found out she is has a boyfriend already...
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