stillhaventfound Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I took out this 21 yo girl last night. She seemed fascinated with me the whole time. We played pool and had a couple drinks. I bought her a rose, which I realize is controversial. On the drive home she was smelling it over and over and when I took her up to the house. I didn't kiss her. Earlier in the evening she asked what we would do on our 2nd date. I playfully said "So you're assuming there will be a 2nd date?" But then we went on to make plans for the next day which was tonight. I texted her a couple times today and didn't hear back until it was past the time we were supposed to meet. I texted "no hard feelings" and then I hung out with another girl for the evening. I would really like to go out with her again. Any advice on my next move? I'm thinking don't contact her for at least a couple days but then what?
Pasttense Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 You can leave the ball in her court: tell her that you would like to go with her again, and that she should contact you when she is available...
miss_jaclynrae Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 One: I think next time you should wait a little longer for a second date. Two: If you really like her, tell her it is a bummer you never heard from her because you were looking forward to it, or something like that. Only ONE text, then it is all up to her.
The dot Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 One: I think next time you should wait a little longer for a second date. Two: If you really like her, tell her it is a bummer you never heard from her because you were looking forward to it, or something like that. Only ONE text, then it is all up to her. This is good advice, but I will add one more point. Three: Set up dates with other people on the other nights of the week. I'm serious. Let her know you are in demand. Seriously, if she thinks you are trying to get a long term commitment from her after just one date, she WILL be creeped out.
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 a rose and no kiss? what are u waiting for? guys out there are fingering women on the first date for gods sake. she is giving a bj to some other guy that knows how to nail her right w/o waiting for signals. this aint the 70's where u give her a rose and she cant wait to see u again. chivalry is dead and women killed it. man up and kiss her. move on or till the next time u see suck her tongue and see if she lets u play with her clit. I wonder why you are suddenly here every moment posting the same old lame, boring crap instead of fingering girls and getting all the bj's that are evidently being administered willy nilly to anybody with a wienie? I guess all that dumb stuff you wrote doesn't apply to you. Must be depressing.
SJC2008 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 @Miss j: I was looking at your pics and literally lol'd at the caption "summer smooches" I don't know if it was meant to be funny but I thought it was lol.
rocketman122 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 (edited) a rose and no kiss? what are u waiting for? guys out there are fingering women on the first date for gods sake. she is giving a bj to some other guy that knows how to nail her right w/o waiting for signals. this aint the 70's where u give her a rose and she cant wait to see u again. chivalry is dead and women killed it. man up and kiss her. move on or till the next time u see suck her tongue and see if she lets u play with her clit. he's absolutely right. she gave clear intentions she was interested and you screwed up your chance. when you walked her to her door, that was where you kissed her. you pussied out plain and simple. Unlike Imperfect, I never go for the goods on the first date. make them wait and get wet. you have to know how to tease and keep them coming back for more. get them hot and bothered and walk away. thats true self control. thats discipline I never had a date when the woman didnt want another. never. I always bring a rose with me, charm their gstrings off and always kiss and hug on the first date. always. there are dates of those I met that simply didnt look like their pictures and thats deceiving so I walk away, but I never got turned down for kissing and a 2nd date. but its me who decides. I want something, I take it. I only had one date that wasnt so great, but not bad. but in Israel I have also have clear advantages most guys dont have. Edited August 3, 2012 by rocketman122
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