blue_jay_bird Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) So my of 7 years boyfriend dumped me, his main reason; he can't see himself getting married to me. He said there is no one else, i believe him. I'v started a relationship with a man, a month after BU. My ex doesn't look like is with anyone or anything. I feel like i would be slightly relieved if he was...kind of like tit for tat. Why do i feel guilt? He said we should take a break. Then told all his friends we broke up. To me that mean's we have broken up. Right? 2 months NC Okay i know why i feel guilty. Cause im only with this guy, to make myself feel better, and hope to cause my ex pain. What's wrong with me. I feel guilty cause i'm acting immature, i feel like he's (ex) is judging. Thinking "well it's a good thing i dumped her, look how fast she's already sleeping with someone". Edited August 2, 2012 by blue_jay_bird
steveblack Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 You are not over him. That should be obvious. This new dude is just filling a space, with the hopes of your ex coming back. Here is the thing. Whatever you do, date a new guy, win the lottery, get a great new exciting job, etc... you will never change your ex. The only person who can change your Ex is....................... your ex. So do things for yourself, and try to move on. If he comes back, its on his terms. Stop thinking about what he is thinking, its going to make you go nuts.
Recommended Posts