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Hello all..

I am happy..very happy to say my ex n i are going to try again....BUT.. i have one problem..during our 4 months apart she i think seen someone else briefly..she doesnt talk about..i guess really we were broken up..she moved out and so on...i on the otherhand did not see anyone else..

What bothers me is she meant the world to me..n i had no want to see anyone else...so how could she...

i desperatly want us to work here..its our third kick at the can. I dont want resentment hurting the oppurtunity...i dont really want to talk about it as im kinda scared at how i will feel..and we were broken up..it appears that it was after sendidng a little time with him that she realizes she still wants to be wth me..

Anyone have any advice...

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be open about it. ask her. you will need to know what happened or it will always eat away at your brain. but the fact she came back should indicate that it meant nothing with the other new guy so dont let it bother you.

 

life is to short. people make mistakes, people have needs.. just because you didnt see anyone else shouldnt mean you hold a grudge over your ex if you want to be back with them there is just no way that can happen.

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