Flirty.Heartless Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Hello, I am new here and willing to share my story with you, guys... I am not an English native, so ignore the possible bad English grammar, I am from Europe. My story goes like this: - i had a boyfriend (G.) for 3 years, i loved him very very much, but he broke my heart - after 3 months of depression (severe depression implying pills) i was still thinking about G. - after 4 months, i went on a holiday in Greece and met a guy (T.) and started a **** buddy relationship with him (he lives in the same country as I, but different towns, so it is kind of long distance relationship) - i fell in love with T. and told him that I want us to have a serious relationship, but he refused - after 2 months with T. in this situation, i met a different guy (A.) and kissed with him during a party - i started a relationship with A. and told T. that we are not gonna continue our **** buddy relationship - T. felt sorry about it and begged me to be with him, because he realized he cares about me only after I left and I accepted, so now I have 2 boyfriends * I care about T., because he is smart, handsome in a classy way and older than me with 8 years, but I can't have a LDR * I am sexually attracted to A., but at the same time I also care about him because he is so nice to me and has a great sense of humour. And has the advantage of living in the same town as I do _____________________________________ What should I do? Because of G., I became such a slutty women and i know it is not the right way, but i'm so sinful and lustful... I intend to keep both relationships, because they can't find about each other (200 km distance).
tachan Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 hmm I dont think you should of either guy. Its not fair to the both of them.
january2011 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Flirty, I don't see a question in your post. What are you looking for by posting on here? Are you asking for advice regarding which one to choose? In my opinion, if you cannot choose between options A and B, then option C might be the best bet. That is, neither of them. Find someone who gives you everything that you get from A and B combined without having to betray or be dishonest with anyone.
tachan Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 sounds like a problems solving question doesnt it?
Chi townD Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I intend to keep both relationships, because they can't find about each other (200 km distance). WRONG!!! They will find out about each other because of you! You won't realize it or even see it, but the guilt about what you're doing is going to come through and they are going to see it in you. Something will be a little....off with you. And that's going to put them on guard. They'll start looking for the "red flags" and the more lies you tell, the more you're going to slip up. Sooner or later, they're going to find out.
Author Flirty.Heartless Posted August 5, 2012 Author Posted August 5, 2012 After some days, I told T. it's better we break up, because we are not compatible. He didn't believed be and said he knows it's all about me and some other guy, but I hope he will be fine without me soon. I continued the relationship with A. and.. so far so good. I hope I made the right choice.
nofool4u Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 I intend to keep both relationships, because they can't find about each other (200 km distance). Uh, ok, so what is it you want us to say to that?
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 What I get from the title of this thread is that your 2 boyfriends are cheating on you … with each other. Awesome. 1
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