Westy123 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 My girlfriend of 1 year and 8 months left me 4 days ago I am crushed she said she sees me like a brother or my best friend i said isnt that what couples are like ? Best friends I'm gutted I'm in the army and away but back every weekend she resently lost her nan and that crushed her and her grandad has terminal cancer I haven't spoken to her since Thursday then I think it's best I really don't no what to do she said she made up her mind but I didn't believe it I no what I did wrong I pressured her with sex all the time and I had money troubles stress from work I Love her so much I want her back I just don't no how to go about it do I wait for her to contact me or do I contact her + do you think she misses me ? Even though I work away ? I've spoken to her mum and she said she doesn't feel me as a partner regardless of the situation of her parent do you think I could win her back after I've sorted my issues out ?I'm 27 and she's 26
Sameold Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Hard to say mate. Every relationship turns a bit like this though, its the whole point/ You end up creating a bond that is not purely based on attraction. Either way, you don't want to be her best mate or bro so NC is the way forward for you. Literally cut her a drift. You are a MAN, not her emotional cushion so prove it. 2
Zammo25 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Just another example of a Woman going " walkies " when things get tough. How many more times ?!
Mcnulty Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Zammo, cynical, bitter generalizations aren't going to help Westy are they???? I'm sorry mate, but it sounds like the relationship changed and her feelings have changed...what can you do?... Leave her be, give her space, go NC, keep busy and focus on a day at a time, or hour by hour at this hardest of times. She may start to miss you, she may not, but don't hang onto false hope if nothing changes.
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