LvRorynVan Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 My fiance just left after being and living together for 8 years. When I cried over our split or asked questions of why we were splitting he told me I was a manipulator and very good at it. I dont cry to get him to do or say anything, I cry because I care and I dont believe in showing you dont if you do. Maybe Im wrong, but he has since told me more than once that he resents me for being manipulative...Im confused.
flitzanu Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 My fiance just left after being and living together for 8 years. When I cried over our split or asked questions of why we were splitting he told me I was a manipulator and very good at it. I dont cry to get him to do or say anything, I cry because I care and I dont believe in showing you dont if you do. Maybe Im wrong, but he has since told me more than once that he resents me for being manipulative...Im confused. i'm guessing this isnt' the entire story. he didn't leave because you cried.
k100danny Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I'm pretty sure he wasn't talking about you crying. Now unless people saw how you were in your relationship then it would be impossible for them to comment on if you are or anre't and what makes it even harder is the fact we are hearing your side and you may not even realise you are doing it if you actually do. nearly everyone does it to some extent that is a fact, we all have times we want our own way but some people are very manipulative this is true and it can be very verh hard to deal with in a relationship.
Author LvRorynVan Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 i'm guessing this isnt' the entire story. he didn't leave because you cried. This is my other thread I posted a couple of days ago. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/separation-divorce/338403-left-behind-after-8-years
flitzanu Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 This is my other thread I posted a couple of days ago. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/separation-divorce/338403-left-behind-after-8-years from your original story, you say that he told you he "wants to be single". that's pretty much all there is to it, and as wilson points out, look into GIGS. sometimes people just want to go explore other things in life.
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