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I don't know, dude. 90 pounds?

 

I'm into the 120-125 pounders with curves. :love:

 

It's just how it happened. Believe me there's plenty of ass there when you grab it. She's got a nice shape. My post was meant to be tongue in cheek though!

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It's an illusion. It's because the rest of their body is skinny. That's dong science 101 my friend.

 

Lol that's funny but I promise it's not the shave and it looks bigger tactic or it looks bigger because they're skinny, there were a couple of "rail thin" guys on our squad and they were HUNG, of course along with the majority of the black guys.

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It's just how it happened. Believe me there's plenty of ass there when you grab it. She's got a nice shape. My post was meant to be tongue in cheek though!

 

You had me at ass :love:

 

As long as that's there I'm good to go. :)

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how tall are u mate?

White and 5'6.

 

 

5'8'' unless he's got a killer personality.

 

5'8".

 

And if he is in 5'8"-5'10" range, he better make up for with in other things :)

Truth be told, that is what I've felt all along. And I've been unable to make up for it.

 

So I've been fu*ked over by the world.

 

I'm tired of being the one who suffers because of things beyond my control.

 

Anger

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And people wonder why I let my height bother me :rolleyes:

 

Truth be told, that is what I've felt all along. And I've been unable to make up for it.

 

So I've been fu*ked over by the world.

 

I'm tired of being the one who suffers because of things beyond my control.

 

Anger

5'8 is barley short

 

I am 57. I am short period. Still feel bad for the 56-55ers.

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I feel sorry for all my girl friends who are below 5'5" and have a 6-ft requirement for guys. Actually, I don't feel sorry for them :p

 

I usually pass if the woman is shorter than average. She might have a height requirement that I meet, but she fails to meet mine. I can't figure out how that first kiss works if she's going to have to stand on a box!

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Why do you let the opinion of women bother you and hold you down in life? Do you realize that this demographic has also come to a concensus and made a pornography book that started off as Harry Potter fanfic (or some crap like that) called "50 Shades Of Gray" the #1 book of the English speaking world? Yes, Amazon.com has the series in its top sellers list.

 

What sells is not always whats actually valuable, that's what champagne-in-a-beer-glass middle class people think , and the myth that keeps getting perpetuated to keep this failed consumerist system alive.

 

Stop getting your value from women's approval, and start getting your value from things that actually matter in life. Tune up your mind, body, and soul and try to get them to be in as much harmony as possible, now that's real validation. If that rare gem of a woman whose actually not completely shallow happens to stumble in your path, it's great, but in the meantime get on The Erotic review and hire out some decent escorts to quench your masculine thirsts, then finally start living for something worth a damn. A life of pussy begging is not a life worth living.

Since it's currently illegal to rape and or imprison a woman, I have to convince one to let me have sex with her or date her, so of course women's opinion of me matters.

 

Yes, many women are trash, but I still have the desire. I'm still hoping to find a good one amongst the filth.

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White and 5'6.

 

 

 

 

 

Truth be told, that is what I've felt all along. And I've been unable to make up for it.

 

So I've been fu*ked over by the world.

 

I'm tired of being the one who suffers because of things beyond my control.

 

Anger

 

 

 

 

 

awwwwwww im sorry you have had a hard time of it, you must be extremely angry would you like stress relief when I had serious relationships i would give up my other occupation because it was not appropriate I am a fully qualified masseuse specializing in deeep tissue and a personal fave of mine i cal it my butterfly massage most guys really liked this one the best

 

 

and no one is talking to me anymore hidiing out somewhere and you are so annnnnnnnnnnnngrrrrrryyyyyyyy so how about you take off your clothes and lie down....one guy actually came while i was massaging ...Ill explain how it is done........i promise i will rid you of anger you will feel boneless trust me...if not there is th eextra special hand relief..when you are ready ill just oil my hand so you prefer warm or cold and by the way my name is puss????????

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You had me at ass :love:

 

As long as that's there I'm good to go. :)

 

 

 

mmmmmmmm anal .....ahhhhha aaaaaaaahhhhhhh....mmmmm purrrr

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awwwwwww im sorry you have had a hard time of it, you must be extremely angry would you like stress relief when I had serious relationships i would give up my other occupation because it was not appropriate I am a fully qualified masseuse specializing in deeep tissue and a personal fave of mine i cal it my butterfly massage most guys really liked this one the best

and no one is talking to me anymore hidiing out somewhere and you are so annnnnnnnnnnnngrrrrrryyyyyyyy

Yes I am angry.

 

Almost 31 years old and I still haven't had a GF.

so how about you take off your clothes and lie down....one guy actually came while i was massaging ...Ill explain how it is done........i promise i will rid you of anger you will feel boneless trust me..

Hmm, I've never even had a massage.

 

I should look into it.

 

.if not there is th eextra special hand relief..when you are ready ill just oil my hand so you prefer warm or cold and by the way my name is puss????????

A dog named puss? You must be pretty confused. Do you get stuck in trees?
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Yes I am angry.

 

Almost 31 years old and I still haven't had a GF.

Hmm, I've never even had a massage.

 

I should look into it.

 

A dog named puss? You must be pretty confused. Do you get stuck in trees?

 

 

Not really into forks i prefer poles so how fit and tall are you? I need to know so i can judge my plan of attack to get you on my table....just call me here kitty kitty.....and ill come.....

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I usually pass if the woman is shorter than average. She might have a height requirement that I meet, but she fails to meet mine. I can't figure out how that first kiss works if she's going to have to stand on a box!

 

The first kiss has to be picture perfect like in the movies? I had a girlfriend that was almost 2 feet shorter than me and didn't matter to us at all. We were sitting next to each other for our first kiss.

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Truth.

 

I have a radical idea for a dating site. You have to put your height, as with any dating site, but women have to provide cup size and hip size :). Men can then filter their criteria by those sizes depending on if they're a boob guy or an ass man.

 

Only if the men put their penis size as well. Fair deal then

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Only if the men put their penis size as well. Fair deal then

 

ok what do you think is the bare minimum length that would be pleasurable and wouldn't cause any second thoughts

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For me past 5'10 is unattractive. I'm short at 5'3" (well I feel short lol) so i think it would be weird for someone to be like a foot taller than me.

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Because of my own height: 5'2" (male), I don't really impose any limitations. With regards to height, I don't even think it comes into play when saying someone is attractive or not; I do prefer people closer to my height.

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I'm a 5'8" woman. My partner is 5'5", as I've mentioned in another thread.

 

Once he starts getting below 5'2" or so, it's really getting too short for me. I would still consider dating someone that short. But I prefer folks within my own height range.

 

I have found that the men I've dated are FAR more insecure about height than I am - but I guess it's the same with me feeling insecure about my weight. We both know that in general, height is a dealbreaker to most women and weight is a dealbreaker for most men.

 

I dated a guy who was 6'3". Way, way too tall. Around 6', he starts getting too tall for me.

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My preferred height is 6-6’2”—give or take and inch.

 

I’d rather not date guys who are too tall or too short. I dated a guy who was 6’6” and one who was 5’6”. I felt like Goldilocks.:laugh: I wore heels with the tall guy more than I ever had before, which was kind of fun, but not my style. I always wore flats with the short guy, but people still made rude comments when we went out.

 

I would date someone between 5’8” and 6’4”.

 

I’m tall (5’9”), so there are guys who don’t find my height attractive, but a taller man is more likely to, IME. I understand how the shorter guys feel because I’ve always felt that at my height, I’ve had to be prettier than my shorter female friends, and even then I was at a disadvantage. Most men seem to prefer women around 5’4”. Guys care about height too, ya know!

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For me a guy's height becomes unattractive at 5'9''.

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]I'm a 5'8" woman. My partner is 5'5", as I've mentioned in another thread.

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Once he starts getting below 5'2" or so, it's really getting too short for me. I would still consider dating someone that short. But I prefer folks within my own height range.

 

I love you :love:

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:p

I love you :love:

 

Wanna do it? We might have to work at making things line up, though. :D Hahahaha!

 

Oh, I tease. I feel bad for shorter guys because, sad to say, many of the women I meet are totally inflexible about that. The thing that I don't get? I know a lot of women who are under 5'4" and they insist on a guy who's over six feet tall. WHAT?!

 

I slouched for the first few months I dated Mr. 5'5". I was terrified that if he realized I was visibly taller, he'd bail. I will never forget when he suddenly blurted out, "HEY, you're taller than me - wait, you're wearing shoes - oh, no you're not." He was wearing shoes. The secret was out.

 

Thankfully, he did not care. It's such a small height difference that I don't even pay it mind anymore.

 

I think people in general need to stop paying so much attention to things that turn out to be very, very minor details. Don't care if he has girly hands, or if his voice is a little too high-pitched for you, or if you think she's 10 pounds overweight. I think when you give people a chance and you go on a second date, or a third date, you'll find that lots of the little things that bothered you are nothing as you get to know the person.

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:p

 

Wanna do it? We might have to work at making things line up, though. :D Hahahaha!

 

Oh, I tease. I feel bad for shorter guys because, sad to say, many of the women I meet are totally inflexible about that. The thing that I don't get? I know a lot of women who are under 5'4" and they insist on a guy who's over six feet tall. WHAT?!

 

I slouched for the first few months I dated Mr. 5'5". I was terrified that if he realized I was visibly taller, he'd bail. I will never forget when he suddenly blurted out, "HEY, you're taller than me - wait, you're wearing shoes - oh, no you're not." He was wearing shoes. The secret was out.

 

Thankfully, he did not care. It's such a small height difference that I don't even pay it mind anymore.

 

I think people in general need to stop paying so much attention to things that turn out to be very, very minor details. Don't care if he has girly hands, or if his voice is a little too high-pitched for you, or if you think she's 10 pounds overweight. I think when you give people a chance and you go on a second date, or a third date, you'll find that lots of the little things that bothered you are nothing as you get to know the person.

 

:D

 

Let's go for it! Don't worry, you will find that things will line up really well ;)

 

I agree -- I know of many women who are below 5'5" and have a minimum requirement of 6-ft for guys they date. And most of them won't budge on it.

 

I like how your partner doesn't care and it was cute how you were scared he would bail cause you were taller. I think most short guys shouldn't care, no matter how prevalent the issue is with some women. I mean, it really is trivial and something people cannot control.

 

I will admit though that I use to only want to date girls my height or shorter. Now, I would date a girl taller than me any day. In fact, height doesn't even pop up into my mind.

 

That's exactly it - those things don't define a person. If you give someone a chance, you're actually giving yourself a chance at meeting someone potentially wonderful. You're really doing yourself a disservice if you turn someone down, who you would otherwise have gone out with, for something trivial.

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Women historically are attracted to power and dominance. Being tall(height) is just one aspect of dominance

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Yeah I've been noticing the trend of women approaching their romantic life like they do shopping. Ever seen a woman shop? She will round the same dark blouse 50 times, pick one, try it on, think yes then no, see what her friends think, is about to buy it until she sees a little red dot that you can barely notice or better yet that "it doesn't look that great when I wear my heels"...then she puts the dark blouse in the garbage and rushes back into the store for an alternative. After all that time she took, she comes back and realizes all the blouses have been taken, there's only 1 crappy blouse left it's got cigarette burns in it and its double the price that the other ones were before...

 

Enjoy your blouse Eternal Sunshine.

 

So well said..Its amazing that men are called shallow but imo women are even more pickier and shallow about physical traits..

 

I always found the whole theory that women arent as shallow or visual hillarious when womens lives are about vanity and over obsessing about their own appereance other womens etc

 

So then what would make people believe they dont over obsess about a Mans appereance as well?

 

I mean picking a SHOE an article of clothign over a potnetially great mate to me is mind numbingly shallow..

 

The vapidness and shallowness in some women is extraodinary quite frankly

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So well said..Its amazing that men are called shallow but imo women are even more pickier and shallow about physical traits..

 

I always found the whole theory that women arent as shallow or visual hillarious when womens lives are about vanity and over obsessing about their own appereance other womens etc

 

So then what would make people believe they dont over obsess about a Mans appereance as well?

 

I mean picking a SHOE an article of clothign over a potnetially great mate to me is mind numbingly shallow..

 

The vapidness and shallowness in some women is extraodinary quite frankly

Perhaps it's "so well said" because you agree with the mindset. I find the shopping analogy a bit illogical as I haven't seen any stores where when you go back an entire category is gone except 1 item that's in horrible shape. Most stores I know restock or have something have pre-ordering.

 

As for finding the vapidness and shallowness extraordinary note the keywords "potentially" great mate. Likely the guy is average or less and more likely the relationship would be over in a few years. They're probably not missing out on some long-term or lifetime partnership with a great guy.

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