2.50 a gallon Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I see so many frutrated guys on this site, and to be honest, from the way you guys talk down to women, from the way you treat women, all of your failures are on you own shoulders. It is your attitudes "Women are only attracted to tall good looking guys, with lots of money and the right car." These are all excuses to explain your failures and is total BS. I am short and skinny, never had that much extra money, and in my younger days was driving an old 15 year old beat up pick up truck, but somehow I had several girl friends. Have you studied women to find out what they like and dislike? Can you dance? Can you have a conversation with them? Can you cook? At Chritmas are you a Bah-humbug kind of guy, or do you go all out, decorate and enjoy that special time of year. Do you celebrate life or are you one of those who believe life is a sh*t sandwich and everyday you have to take a bite? 5
proseandpassion Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I see so many frutrated guys on this site, and to be honest, from the way you guys talk down to women, from the way you treat women, all of your failures are on you own shoulders. It is your attitudes "Women are only attracted to tall good looking guys, with lots of money and the right car." These are all excuses to explain your failures and is total BS. I am short and skinny, never had that much extra money, and in my younger days was driving an old 15 year old beat up pick up truck, but somehow I had several girl friends. Have you studied women to find out what they like and dislike? Can you dance? Can you have a conversation with them? Can you cook? At Chritmas are you a Bah-humbug kind of guy, or do you go all out, decorate and enjoy that special time of year. Do you celebrate life or are you one of those who believe life is a sh*t sandwich and everyday you have to take a bite? ^^^^^^ THIS x1000. 1
Author Bob_Funk Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 I see so many frutrated guys on this site, and to be honest, from the way you guys talk down to women, from the way you treat women, all of your failures are on you own shoulders. It is your attitudes "Women are only attracted to tall good looking guys, with lots of money and the right car." These are all excuses to explain your failures and is total BS. I am short and skinny, never had that much extra money, and in my younger days was driving an old 15 year old beat up pick up truck, but somehow I had several girl friends. Have you studied women to find out what they like and dislike? Can you dance? Can you have a conversation with them? Can you cook? At Chritmas are you a Bah-humbug kind of guy, or do you go all out, decorate and enjoy that special time of year. Do you celebrate life or are you one of those who believe life is a sh*t sandwich and everyday you have to take a bite? How old are you? I'm guessing you got to live your twenties before the social networking age. Before average girls were getting hit on a hundred times a week and expected their men to look like Taylor Lautner. Before hypergamy went into overdrive.
samsungxoxo Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 (edited) Why you're not getting girls interest in sleeping with you? The answer can be several of these different reasons 1) Your approach is creepy and insincere since you're just inviting them with the intention of trying to seduce them. Why would I want to sleep with a random stranger I don't even have a connect with and I'm starting to get to know him? 2) Maybe you're not every woman's type 3) You obsession about 18 year-old girls according to your previous thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/337994-men-women-both-peak-18-a 4) Maybe she's afraid of getting label. If she puts out within your time frame or even says anything relating to having a sex drive then she's immediately a slut but if she makes you wait, then you'll start complaining about why she's taking forever (you might even label her a prude). It's a lose-lose eitherway. What do you want then!!!! 5) You're too focus on ''How to get laid today'' mentality and they're sensing your desperation 6) Your conversations suck... what do you really talk about that's enough to get them bored? 7) Overall you're giving a bad vibe Edited August 1, 2012 by samsungxoxo 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 No, im just stating facts. Most women who have lackluster sex with their boyfriend twice a week will go full on sex fiend if confronted with George Clooney. I know. That always happens, every single time me or any of my friends are confronted with George Clooney. It's like clockwork. 1
2.50 a gallon Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 What do you guys know about love chemicals? Don't you realize what an advantage men have in the sex department? If you properly seduce a woman and get her high on them, they will want more and the only source for their next high is your d*ck and only your d*ck 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 (edited) Dear OP. The chances are pretty good that sex with you would be a horrible burden. Reading your posts is, kind of. Don't blame the girls because none of them want to have sex with you. It's YOU. It's easy to glean from the tone of ALL your posts that you exude the exact antithesis to "attractiveness." No woman on Earth is going to get in bed with you until you make some significant progress in your development. Unless you pay them, of course. Also, give the word "hypergamy" a break. You and your angry little buddies have been wearing it out around here. Edited August 1, 2012 by Mme. Chaucer 2
Leopard Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Dood, you need to understand that it's much easier for a guy to have sex, than it is for a woman to open up. I don't know why, but when it comes to sex, women guard themselves far more. You wouldn't understand maybe because your genitals are on the exterior, but when someone is literally inside of you, it's a big deal. At least to me. And maybe for the kind of women you date. Also, how early in dating do you make your sexual advances? Maybe its too soon for the girls you are attracted to. 4
Kofybean Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 ... Dude, I've tried the laid back approach. All it got me was a first class ticket to incel hell. How is that any different from your current situation? Except that you are still a good man that way. Sure women can be shallow, and hypocritical but how does their behavior change who you are? Compromise your values just to get the 0.01%? If women dont like you because you are a good man, then at least they don't like you because you are a good man. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Pretty much all anecdotal and scientific evidence points to girls having vastly lower sex drives. Not to mention girls' sexuality is so narcissistic that they'd rather diddle in front of a mirror than get with an actual flesh-and-blood male. Hm. I wonder if this attitude of yours gives us all an idea of what a blast a roll in the hay would be with you? You really believe that women aren't sleeping with you because of "our" low sex drive and inherent narcissism? I laugh! Sadly, diddling and a mirror would certainly provide a more fulfilling sexual experience than one with certain "flesh and blood males." Just because you're alive doesn't mean that somebody would want to have sex with you! I don't even need George Clooney or Tater Tot or whoever; just my regular old clunky love of a husband sparks me very nicely. And frequently. And quickly. Without a mirror, even. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 What a vein, shallow, arrogant, selfish attitude. Seriously, you think it's "vein," arrogant and selfish for a woman to prefer to masturbate, watch "The Real Housewives of Wherever," or mop the kitchen floor to having a sexual experience with a guy she in NO WAY likes? Really??? 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 About 70% of the time. They still never want to see me again. So much for girls caring about sex, eh? I never even want to see you one time! 1
todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 (edited) They can see that I'm a decent looking guy with a good body who's not going to cause them physical harm. So why does it feel like pulling teeth trying to get them back to my place? And once I do have them alone, my physical advances are rejected 90% of the time. I just think if two attractive young people have the opportunity to get together and make each other feel good, then why not? Or is that it? Girls just can't stand the idea of some random guy getting pleasure out of their bodies. sounds like unpaid work to me........random guys dont randomly do it for me how can you possible have gritty play in the mud with snorkel sex with a random. Might be a bit too much for a first date I would suggest just mud no snorkel... you at least have to wait until the snorkel becomes erect and you dont have to put glad wrap around it...snorkel needs to be tested for water tight capability...mmmmmm snorkels.no gladwrap..I like skin on skin to get it in.......droooool..mmmmmmm saliva.toodles.....deb Edited August 1, 2012 by todreaminblue speeeeeeeeling
johan Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Every woman I've dated wanted sex all the time. More than I did sometimes. 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Every woman I've dated wanted sex all the time. More than I did sometimes. Do robots even want sex at all?
johan Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Do robots even want sex at all? Want to find out? 3
Eternal Sunshine Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Every woman I've dated wanted sex all the time. More than I did sometimes. Thanks for sharing.
johan Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Thanks for sharing. Too much information? Did I misunderstand the topic of the thread? 1
123321 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I don't know why, but when it comes to sex, women guard themselves far more. In humans the female has a much higher intrinsic investment in procreation, being demure is an instinctive way to force a male to invest more effort.
Eternal Sunshine Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Too much information? Did I misunderstand the topic of the thread? Who wants to associate "you" and "sex"
johan Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Who wants to associate "you" and "sex" Well... I'd kind of like to... 2
2.50 a gallon Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) bf Yes my 20's, 30's, 40's and even 50's are long gone. I had to find my dates the old fashion way, face to face. To be honest, I am envious of the younger generation, look at all of the tools you have to find new women. All you have to do is get on the internet. You don't have to walk up to a gal in the mall and try to find a way to introduce yourself and get her interested in you. Instead you can do it by keyboard. One of my old friends and I just reconnected via the internet. I was best man at is wedding. Same age as me and retired. At first he was down, because he and his Ex's divorce had just been made final. At my encouragement he tried OLD, and he now has a totally new outlook on life. It is like he is going out with somebody new every week, and yes they are all younger than him, some as many as 20 years As for you, you are still looking for excuses. Edited August 2, 2012 by 2.50 a gallon missing word 2
2.50 a gallon Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 This message is for all of the guys who are complaining that they can't get laid. Tomorrow is dollar day at Goodwill. All purple tags, no matter what, be it a TV or a pair of pants are only a dollar. Every Goodwill has a large selection of used cook books, in all likelihood there will be several that will only be a dollar. Pick out a good one, such as maybe Chinese, take it home and begin cooking for yourself. It only costs one dollar. The idea is to gain a skill that you can offer to the ladies. Look around the store. Who know you might get lucky and find a wok to go with your book 4
Author Bob_Funk Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) bf Yes my 20's, 30's, 40's and even 50's are long gone. I had to find my dates the old fashion way, face to face. To be honest, I am envious of the younger generation, look at all of the tools you have to find new women. All you have to do is get on the internet. You don't have to walk up to a gal in the mall and try to find a way to introduce yourself and get her interested in you. Instead you can do it by keyboard. One of my old friends and I just reconnected via the internet. I was best man at is wedding. Same age as me and retired. At first he was down, because he and his Ex's divorce had just been made final. At my encouragement he tried OLD, and he now has a totally new outlook on life. It is like he is going out with somebody new every week, and yes they are all younger than him, some as many as 20 years As for you, you are still looking for excuses. Dates are meaningless nowadays. I could go on fifteen dates over the next two months, and probably none of them would end up sleeping with me. And why would they? They have a thousand other guys messaging them. Better hold out for that male model. You have no clue. On paper, social networking might seem like it would be a boon. But in practice, all it means is A LOT more competition for each girl. Not only do you have to beat out the guys who've approached her in person. You have to beat out every other guy in the city. Edited August 2, 2012 by Bob_Funk
betterdeal Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Jeez, you go out, you mingle, you flirt, tell a few jokes, have a twinkle in your eye, imagine her naked, go in for a kiss, kiss, suggest having sex, go somewhere and have sex. Ta da! Is it really so hard? NB If at any point she objects, be respectful. Might not be in the mood. Move on. 2
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