Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 It is for guys like you Says the virgin. 1
ThaWholigan Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Women are highly sexual and get as much out of sex as we do, and provided men know what their doing both mentally and physically, women can get much more out of sex than we can. I know this, and I believe I'm capable and as such, I am comfortable enough in this knowledge to never allow myself to be desperate for it. Desperation will kill any ability to get sex, or provide women the platform to have great sex with you. So I doubt you'll ever get it personally, and I feel sorry for you. 4
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Says the virgin. oh yeah? I bet a virgin knows much more than an escort lover, no offense. 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 They can see that I'm a decent looking guy with a good body who's not going to cause them physical harm. So why does it feel like pulling teeth trying to get them back to my place? And once I do have them alone, my physical advances are rejected 90% of the time. I just think if two attractive young people have the opportunity to get together and make each other feel good, then why not? Or is that it? Girls just can't stand the idea of some random guy getting pleasure out of their bodies. Not to rain on your parade, but.. I see women only do that to guys they aren't attracted to. Maybe it's time for some soul searching, Mr. Funk.
ThaWholigan Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Says the virgin. Yeah, the virgin who can actually attract women without paying for it, and doesn't come to LS bitching about how terrible it is for me.
MaxNoob Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Where can I get one of these girls that treat sex like a horrible burden? My last girlfriend wanted to do me so often, it was too much for me. I went down on her so often, and like any muscle, my tongue gets bigger with each workout; my own tongue got so big that it hardly fit in my mouth anymore. 5
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 oh yeah? I bet a virgin knows much more than an escort lover, no offense. I've also been with many civilian girls in a span of three years. Probably more than 95% of guys my age. The thing is I'm at least honest in saying that getting girls into bed takes A LOT of work. I can't stand when people act as if something that's difficult is so easy.
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Where can I get one of these girls that treat sex like a horrible burden? My last girlfriend wanted to do me so often, it was too much for me. I went down on her so often, and like any muscle, my tongue gets bigger with each workout; my own tongue got so big that it hardly fit in my mouth anymore. Same ugly old pussy everyday. No thanks. Please go die and stop using up resources.
threebyfate Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 In my experience, it's the guys who've slept with the least amount of girls who go on about how easy it is. Useless.Odd. Why are you having problems with hookers?
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Odd. Why are you having problems with hookers? Still useless.
ThaWholigan Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Lame excuse. For so many reasons. Have you made a girl cum before? Same ugly old pussy everyday. No thanks. Please go die and stop using up resources. Such a charmer 2
threebyfate Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Still useless.So dating can't get you laid and hookers are problematic. I'm slayed with laughter!
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Have you made a girl cum before? About 70% of the time. They still never want to see me again. So much for girls caring about sex, eh?
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 About 70% of the time. They still never want to see me again. So much for girls caring about sex, eh? They're probably faking so they'd be done with you already and never have to see you again! 4
ThaWholigan Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 About 70% of the time. They still never want to see me again. So much for girls caring about sex, eh? How do you know you made them cum? 1
Kofybean Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Yeah no. To answer your question, because sex is a tool for women. Once a woman gives it up easily what does she have to bargain with? In most situations involving sex, women are at an extreme disadvantage. This is one of them, because unless the guy is easy to control, a woman who is using sex as a tool entraps herself. Which is also, incidently, the answer to the op's question. Men are too easy. Some men that is. George Clooney is the most overrated talentless actor ever. He can't carry a movie solo, and has only one role he can play, not versatile and very robotic. But its impossible to get him to commit to marriage... which is irresistable temptation from model like women who feel they are so beautiful they can change his mind. To the OP. Stop being so easy (desperate). That will change a lot of your sexual experiences. 1
Author Bob_Funk Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 In most situations involving sex, women are at an extreme disadvantage. This is one of them, because unless the guy is easy to control, a woman who is using sex as a tool entraps herself. Which is also, incidently, the answer to the op's question. Men are too easy. Some men that is. George Clooney is the most overrated talentless actor ever. He can't carry a movie solo, and has only one role he can play, not versatile and very robotic. But its impossible to get him to commit to marriage... which is irresistable temptation from model like women who feel they are so beautiful they can change his mind. To the OP. Stop being so easy (desperate). That will change a lot of your sexual experiences. Finally a well written post. It's easy to forget that not everyone on here's a cretin. Just a few very outspoken members who have to resort to ad hominems to get their point across. Dude, I've tried the laid back approach. All it got me was a first class ticket to incel hell. The only tactic that's worked for me is playing the numbers game online, tricking girls into coming back to my place on the first date, and pushing for sex right away. Sure, the rejection rate's incredibly high (like 99.9%). But it still beats what I was getting before - nothing.
ascendotum Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 contrary to popular belief majorities of women and even men do prefer to wait for sex. Its ironic that the thread just below this is from a guy who chatted to some cute girl he met online for a couple of hours and bang up for action. He got a BJ out of it and she is travelling over to his place tomorrow for more. These days, majority do not wait (when young anyway) when they think the other person is hot stuff, imo Majority of guys will wait if they are considering the girl for a gf and she seems a bit wary, and they dont want to blow it, but if she seems keen, they wont wait. 2
spiderowl Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 It could be because you are projecting your feelings onto the women. You are horny and want to get them home for sex, that's the main thing on your mind, so you assume they are feeling the same way. When they don't respond as if they are, what happens? Do you try to pressure them or just accept it and enjoy their company? A woman can easily tell what a guy's main goal is. Guys tend to think their motives are not that obvious - wrong! Either the women aren't as attracted to you as yo seem to think they should be or they'd rather get to know you better first, maybe even have a RELATIONSHIP! They are probably picking up on your short-term, hormone-driven thinking and deciding not to go there. 5
Author Bob_Funk Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 Its ironic that the thread just below this is from a guy who chatted to some cute girl he met online for a couple of hours and bang up for action. He got a BJ out of it and she is travelling over to his place tomorrow for more. These days, majority do not wait (when young anyway) when they think the other person is hot stuff, imo Majority of guys will wait if they are considering the girl for a gf and she seems a bit wary, and they dont want to blow it, but if she seems keen, they wont wait. This typically only happens when there's a disparity in dating market value (the guy is much better looking or higher status than the girl).
2.50 a gallon Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 BF "The only tactic that's worked for me is playing the numbers game online, tricking girls into coming back to my place on the first date, and pushing for sex right away." There is your problem! Have you learned how to talk to them and how to listen. If you listen to them they will tell you how to seduce them You're not going to like this, but about a third of the time I had sex on the first date and if it didn't happen by the third date, I knew it was likely never going to happen And there have been but few times that there wasn't a second encounter, if not several more. And one of my fwb's hung around for a good seven years. And only gave up and married an architect shortly after I got married My Ex-fiance told me on Wednesday when she said she would go fishing with me on Thursday, to not get any ideas about her ever being my girl friend. We caught fish, had a fish fry at my place and I took her home early that next morning, after she took a shower. I knew she had a date with BF #1 on Friday night. So after work on Friday I was surprised to find her knocking on my door wanting a repeat of the previous night. 3
Author Bob_Funk Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 It could be because you are projecting your feelings onto the women. You are horny and want to get them home for sex, that's the main thing on your mind, so you assume they are feeling the same way. When they don't respond as if they are, what happens? Do you try to pressure them or just accept it and enjoy their company? A woman can easily tell what a guy's main goal is. Guys tend to think their motives are not that obvious - wrong! Either the women aren't as attracted to you as yo seem to think they should be or they'd rather get to know you better first, maybe even have a RELATIONSHIP! They are probably picking up on your short-term, hormone-driven thinking and deciding not to go there. I wouldn't mind taking things slow... if I know the girl will sleep with me at some point down the line. But just hanging out as friends for months, with no guarantee of anything physical happening? Not interested. I actually met a cute girl five months ago who told me the same thing. Her words: "You're very good looking, and I like hanging out with you, but you need to cool your jets. Friends first." Well, I hung out with her like five times and never even got a makeout. Huge waste of time.
NoMagicBullet Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 The only tactic that's worked for me is playing the numbers game online, tricking girls into coming back to my place on the first date, and pushing for sex right away. Dude, that's just creepy. No wonder they're bolting. If you have to trick them to get them back to your place, then they didn't initially want to be there. And if they didn't really want to be there, they definitely didn't want your advances. Be more selective about who you take home. Make it an invitation, not a trap. The ones who want to jump your bones will step up to accept that invitation. You may not get as many girls back to your place, but the results once there will improve. 4
ascendotum Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 This typically only happens when there's a disparity in dating market value (the guy is much better looking or higher status than the girl). I tend to agree. Though I do think that once you pass a certain threshold in good looks, then then the disparity does not matter so much. For sure many a girl who's a 5-6 will be keen to seal the deal with a guy who's an 7-8 she's met out that night, than if she was at a venue where she thought all the guys where 5-6. I also think a girl who's a 8 who has had a couple of drinks will be keen to jump into bed without too much preliminaries for the same guy she met that night that got on well with her. A couple of my mates where 9 in looks/charm and they would walk out the door of clubs with girls thay had chatted to for under an hour mostly, every weekend, and these girls were hunnies (8-9) if they wanted. Sometimes they would go down in looks if they wanted to act like full on jerks for the fun or have sex in the carpark.
proseandpassion Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 The above quote being especially ridiculous. Women are narcissistic and lack empathy, so this is the kind of response I'd expect.... Empathy? As in, you want a pity ****? Okayyy...
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