Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 They can see that I'm a decent looking guy with a good body who's not going to cause them physical harm. So why does it feel like pulling teeth trying to get them back to my place? And once I do have them alone, my physical advances are rejected 90% of the time. I just think if two attractive young people have the opportunity to get together and make each other feel good, then why not? Or is that it? Girls just can't stand the idea of some random guy getting pleasure out of their bodies.
proseandpassion Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 They can see that I'm a decent looking guy with a good body who's not going to cause them physical harm. So why does it feel like pulling teeth trying to get them back to my place? And once I do have them alone, my physical advances are rejected 90% of the time. I just think if two attractive young people have the opportunity to get together and make each other feel good, then why not? Or is that it? Girls just can't stand the idea of some random guy getting pleasure out of their bodies. If all you want is to get a woman back to your place so you can screw her, then I suggest you save yourself and the woman the headache and hire a prostitute. Then you can have your way exactly the way you want it. 6
SmileFace Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 You must be horrible at it. Well getting "it" in your case. Sounds like a personal problem. 2
anne1707 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 A woman generally has to like and respect a man and feel liked and respected in return before having sex with him. 7
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 It's either that: 1. Not attracted to you! Just because you think you're decent looking and attractive doesn't mean they should think the same way. 2. Your approcah is creepy or not smooth or has something else wrong with it. Most men just rush the whole thing and don't know how to charm and turn on a woman. My guess is both hold true in your situation. 6
Cracker Jack Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Sorry, Bob. I don't know you, but it sounds like you're doing something to turn these women off. If women had this sort of stance on sex, most guys wouldn't even be getting laid. It's not an issue about the women, but an issue with you. 6
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Sorry, Bob. I don't know you, but it sounds like you're doing something to turn these women off. If women had this sort of stance on sex, most guys wouldn't even be getting laid. It's not an issue about the women, but an issue with you. Keep living in fantasy land, bro.
proseandpassion Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Women are looking for quality lovers. As in... we don't want to waste our time having really lame, subpar sex. We'd rather just not do that. So unless you're some sexual dynamo, she's probably just guessing you might suck at it and would rather go home and go to bed. 5
Balzac Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Hone your skill at preselection of candidates. It's a numbers game, it's reading body language and you'll get there.
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Women are looking for quality lovers. As in... we don't want to waste our time having really lame, subpar sex. We'd rather just not do that. So unless you're some sexual dynamo, she's probably just guessing you might suck at it and would rather go home and go to bed. Not buying it. Sex isn't exactly rocket science you know.
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Hone your skill at preselection of candidates. It's a numbers game, it's reading body language and you'll get there. It is for women, we don't cum as easily as men do, remember? Oh I forgot, you do escorts and they fake it for you anyway 1
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Yeah no. To answer your question, because sex is a tool for women. Once a woman gives it up easily what does she have to bargain with? I think that's a big part of it. Combined with having a much lower sex drive relative to guys.
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 It is for women, we don't cum as easily as men do, remember? Oh I forgot, you do escorts and they fake it for you anyway Lame excuse. For so many reasons.
proseandpassion Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Not buying it. Sex isn't exactly rocket science you know. HAHAHA. Such a typical male-centric POV in regards to female sexuality! 4
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Lame excuse. For so many reasons. oh and saying women have low sex drive as an excuse for your lack of attractiveness/charm isn't lame? 5
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 No, im just stating facts. Most women who have lackluster sex with their boyfriend twice a week will go full on sex fiend if confronted with George Clooney. Because they have stiff competition, not so much with the average guy. George Clooney isn't hot to me, I'd never sleep with him. 2
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Yes darling I know, I specifically edited the post because as sure as the sun rising I knew a woman was going to say they weren't attracted to Clooney. Well then you should have said Channing tatum then or brad pit. 1
threebyfate Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 They can see that I'm a decent looking guy with a good body who's not going to cause them physical harm. So why does it feel like pulling teeth trying to get them back to my place? And once I do have them alone, my physical advances are rejected 90% of the time. I just think if two attractive young people have the opportunity to get together and make each other feel good, then why not? Or is that it? Girls just can't stand the idea of some random guy getting pleasure out of their bodies.There's only one constant in your experiences. 1
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 oh and saying women have low sex drive as an excuse for your lack of attractiveness/charm isn't lame? Pretty much all anecdotal and scientific evidence points to girls having vastly lower sex drives. Not to mention girls' sexuality is so narcissistic that they'd rather diddle in front of a mirror than get with an actual flesh-and-blood male.
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Pretty much all anecdotal and scientific evidence points to girls having vastly lower sex drives. Not to mention girls' sexuality is so narcissistic that they'd rather diddle in front of a mirror than get with an actual flesh-and-blood male. Charming/attractive men have another opinion, I wonder why...As another poster said, put us in front of a man we're attracted to and then observe our sex drive. 2
ThaWholigan Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Not buying it. Sex isn't exactly rocket science you know. It is for guys like you 1
threebyfate Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Charming/attractive men have another opinion, I wonder why...As another poster said, put us in front of a man we're attracted to and then observe our sex drive.Oooo...real panty droppers instead of over-inflated cyber narcissists who project their issues onto women? 2
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 put men in front of miss america and their sex drives will go through the roof. I don't deny that but we're not talking about men's sex drive here.
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 There's only one constant in your experiences. In my experience, it's the guys who've slept with the least amount of girls who go on about how easy it is. Useless.
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