Gulf-Delta Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 It's been 6 months since the breakup now....throughout the day, I can pretty much ignore the thoughts of my ex. I can distract myself with hobbies or work or whatever. But at night, I dream about her, and last night was especially bad. It felt so real. We were hanging out with our 2 mutual friends, and they had a hotel room, but I didn't, so I sletp in my exes room. I all seemed to realistic. We were just talking, catching up, she was teasing me in her way she always did when I would try I food she liked...and then we kissed, and she started crying, and we hugged and she said the reason she left was I that she couldn't live up to the kind of woman I deserved. And then I woke up feeling like crap. That she always felt lie I deserved the best and the pressure to live up to that was too much. I really wish I could stop dreaming about her.
magneet Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 same boat here, having these real dreams. pisses me off ...
Follower Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Dont worry the dreams will slowly fade away, i still get the odd dream here and there. Its actualy enjoyable these days to have that little memory of her and to spend some time with her without all the other bs kicking around
BrokenMirror Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Oh I know how you feel. I've been broken up with my ex for five months and I still dream of him. My most recent dream of him was that we were living our married life together and celebrating our honeymoon. And even though I don't want to be with him ever again, its quite terrible. Furthermore, I've had a crush on another friend for a long time and he shows up in my dreams too, where we do couple stuff like hold hands and talk a lot or go to the fair and what not. I want them to stop!
Jamesblame Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Dreams are a healing process. At first my dreams were terrible. Or lovely. And I'd wake up...and promptly cry. But then as NC continued, Id dream about my ex and there would be a new revelation. I dreamed that she was dating and flirting with her new bf in front of me...and I didn't care. At all. I would never realize my emotional state as clearly without dreams. They're just a gauge on your emotions.
traces Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I used to have tons of dreams about my ex after our break-up. When I woke up I always felt so heavy, like there was something sitting on my soul (dramatic, but true, haha). They stopped for a while, and then over a year after the breakup I had a couple more out of the blue, including a weird sex dream. It was so bizarre. I was with a new guy and was so happy, I never even thought about my ex anymore. I guess there's nothing you can do to stop them. A part of your mind is always going to remember them, and try to resolve something that's never going to get closure. But I can say for sure that, once you're really over your ex, these dreams will stop being painful.
Coffee20 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 same for me, through the day it's better and better but at night...dreams almost disappeared last month but now they are back I usually have dreams about my ex being with someone else and doing all the funny stuff he didn't want to do with me...I am always there and have to watch them from distance
rippedapart Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 same boat here as well, 2 months post BU..it's very painful..every single night
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