digon1631 Posted July 31, 2012 Share Posted July 31, 2012 My ex gf broke up with me saying she needed a break out of nowhere. After our break I stuck around and helped her out still. Bought her things, took her out and she kept saying I love you and kissed me. She basically was lying to me to use me and I walked in on her and another guy. Long story short she said this guy was better then me, shê doesn't regret it, she doesn't love me anymore and thought I was crazy and sensitive (even though I was not). She told me before she loved me and wanted to marry me. We were in a 3.5 year relationship and she told her family and my family she wanted us to get married. Then she wasn't satisfied with whatever I got her or helped her out with. She basically broke up with me because she was wondering what was out there when our relationship was perfectly healthy. Now she thinks this guy is way better then me (when everyone knows he's clearly not) and she doesn't regret her decision. Now my question is, do you think she will eventually feel regret and miss me? Or is she going to constantly be selfish in her life and never be satisfied with what she has? I'm moving on, but I was wondering is she ever going to regret it? She's a stubborn person who thinks she's always right and was trying to make me look like the bad guy here. I have a feeling deep down she is going to call me and cry after a long period of time. She took me for granted and I wonder if she will ever realize that the grass isn't always greener and she should have been satisfied in the first place Link to post Share on other sites
WhatYouWantToHear Posted July 31, 2012 Share Posted July 31, 2012 I'm moving on, Everything else in your post contradicts this. It sounds like your fishing on here for someone to blow smoke up your butt and tell you that your a good guy and she's the devil incarnate. Honestly, that's probably what you need to. I suggest you find a real-world friend who knew her and go vent to them and let them do some smoke blowing. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted July 31, 2012 Share Posted July 31, 2012 My ex gf broke up with me saying she needed a break out of nowhere. After our break I stuck around and helped her out still. Bought her things, took her out and she kept saying I love you and kissed me. She basically was lying to me to use me and I walked in on her and another guy. Long story short she said this guy was better then me, shê doesn't regret it, she doesn't love me anymore and thought I was crazy and sensitive (even though I was not). She told me before she loved me and wanted to marry me. We were in a 3.5 year relationship and she told her family and my family she wanted us to get married. Then she wasn't satisfied with whatever I got her or helped her out with. She basically broke up with me because she was wondering what was out there when our relationship was perfectly healthy. Now she thinks this guy is way better then me (when everyone knows he's clearly not) and she doesn't regret her decision. Now my question is, do you think she will eventually feel regret and miss me? Or is she going to constantly be selfish in her life and never be satisfied with what she has? I'm moving on, but I was wondering is she ever going to regret it? She's a stubborn person who thinks she's always right and was trying to make me look like the bad guy here. I have a feeling deep down she is going to call me and cry after a long period of time. She took me for granted and I wonder if she will ever realize that the grass isn't always greener and she should have been satisfied in the first place That is entirely up to you now. You need to make massive self improvements to your life. Changing your self image, working out. Going back to school, getting a better job, finding a better place, traveling. One day, she may run into a mutual friend and she may ask, " Hey, I drive by by Dig's apartment and I never see his car there. Is he okay?" Mutual Friend, " Oh, he's doing great! He doesn't live there anymore. He got this awesome townehome on the other side of town. He had a house warming party and his new place is NICE!!! Here I got a pic on my phone." Then she see's a pic of you with a ripped bod in new threads looking all GQ. Ex "Oh wow! Well, the next time you see him, tell him I said Hi" Friend " Sure, it won't be until next week, he took his new girlfriend to the Bahamas for the week." Yeah, she'll start to regret it. If you don't do anything, then you're the same old guy that she dumped you for. Why would she want more of the same thing? Why would regret giving up the same old Dig? Link to post Share on other sites
dannykeyz831 Posted July 31, 2012 Share Posted July 31, 2012 That is entirely up to you now. You need to make massive self improvements to your life. Changing your self image, working out. Going back to school, getting a better job, finding a better place, traveling. One day, she may run into a mutual friend and she may ask, " Hey, I drive by by Dig's apartment and I never see his car there. Is he okay?" Mutual Friend, " Oh, he's doing great! He doesn't live there anymore. He got this awesome townehome on the other side of town. He had a house warming party and his new place is NICE!!! Here I got a pic on my phone." Then she see's a pic of you with a ripped bod in new threads looking all GQ. Ex "Oh wow! Well, the next time you see him, tell him I said Hi" Friend " Sure, it won't be until next week, he took his new girlfriend to the Bahamas for the week." Yeah, she'll start to regret it. If you don't do anything, then you're the same old guy that she dumped you for. Why would she want more of the same thing? Why would regret giving up the same old Dig? The longest I had been broken up with my ex gf was a month and a half which wasn't much time to really change myself. When I first met her I was 170 and by the end of the relationship I was close to around 210. I think the problem that a lot of guys have and even myself is that we tend to get too comfortable in a relationship. That's why I've now been working my tail off in the gym, been applying to different jobs, and taking 15 units at my local CC. We need to be out there because one, women will appreciate a guy who is trying to better himself, and two, we don't become that boring guy with that same routine. It shows that that we love ourselves. Women will respect and admire a guy like that. Link to post Share on other sites
weallfalldown Posted July 31, 2012 Share Posted July 31, 2012 rub dog **** in her face............she deserves it! Link to post Share on other sites
mike588 Posted August 1, 2012 Share Posted August 1, 2012 My ex gf broke up with me saying she needed a break out of nowhere. After our break I stuck around and helped her out still. Bought her things, took her out and she kept saying I love you and kissed me. She basically was lying to me to use me and I walked in on her and another guy. Long story short she said this guy was better then me, shê doesn't regret it, she doesn't love me anymore and thought I was crazy and sensitive (even though I was not). She told me before she loved me and wanted to marry me. We were in a 3.5 year relationship and she told her family and my family she wanted us to get married. Then she wasn't satisfied with whatever I got her or helped her out with. She basically broke up with me because she was wondering what was out there when our relationship was perfectly healthy. Now she thinks this guy is way better then me (when everyone knows he's clearly not) and she doesn't regret her decision. Now my question is, do you think she will eventually feel regret and miss me? Or is she going to constantly be selfish in her life and never be satisfied with what she has? I'm moving on, but I was wondering is she ever going to regret it? She's a stubborn person who thinks she's always right and was trying to make me look like the bad guy here. I have a feeling deep down she is going to call me and cry after a long period of time. She took me for granted and I wonder if she will ever realize that the grass isn't always greener and she should have been satisfied in the first place About 2 years ago I reconnected with an old friend of mine who was fresh out of a relationship (red flag I ignored) and we started dating and hit it off. She told me she still had feelings for her ex. but assured then reassured me MANY times it was over between them. She told me she loved me and I was the best thing to EVER come along in her life blah blah blah. After dating for a year she dumped me for him..her ex. She said it was something she just had to do. I was heartbroken. Like you I wondered and hoped she would call me crying after some time and would also realize that she made a mistake and the grass wasn't greener on the other side. She told me thru our relationship that she wasn't happy with him and he wasn't right for her. Don't put your life on hold wondering...waiting and hoping for that call. Move on with your life...believe/act like she will never call or come back. Take care of yourself now...spoil yourself..do what makes you happy and try to let go..I know its tough..Believe me!!! It's been a year now since my breakup and I'm sooooo over it and her. Stay No Contact..it gets better every day..it really does. Link to post Share on other sites
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