brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Personality matters more. Obviously I'm not going to want to date someone hideous. They have to be at least decent looking. I can find them very handsome and hot if I'm into them. This is absolutely true. I don't understand why guys can't grasp this concept If women cared about looks as much as men, then porn for women would be a lot more successful than it is I've done a good amount of research on this on various sites. Generally speaking, women care about looks as 30-50% of the formula while men care about personality/success about 30-50% of the formula
Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I already work out four days a week and watch my diet. More than I can say for the girls who reject me. It's one thing to require some minimum threshold of attractiveness. I get that. The problem is average girls demanding a guy with perfect model looks before even giving him a chance. Another thing to keep in mind: your looks rating is almost entirely out of your control. Lol if you think any guy can look like Channing Tatum.
brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 The problem is average girls demanding a guy with perfect model looks before even giving him a chance. Are you delusional? Perfect model looks = top maybe 5% of men. Are you saying the other 95% are always alone?
fortyninethousand322 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Look....LOOKS DO MATTER....how much they matter though depends on the partnership you are going for. Duh. Might as well have made a thread stating "the sky is blue, just how blue depends on how cloudy it is". Beauty and the Beast is a fairytale for a reason. 2
Bob_Funk Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Are you delusional? Perfect model looks = top maybe 5% of men. Are you saying the other 95% are always alone? Most "relationships" you see are pretty much just business transactions. Sure, I could probably get a girl if I promised her the world, but who the hell wants to do that? Might as well just pay directly.
brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Yes I am delusional I fixed your post Most relationships I know feature couples sharing costs by the way 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Most "relationships" you see are pretty much just business transactions. Sure, I could probably get a girl if I promised her the world, but who the hell wants to do that? Might as well just pay directly. Maybe when you finally experience a relationship, you'll be able to talk intelligently about them. One can only hope.
Negative Nancy Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 If women cared about looks as much as men, then porn for women would be a lot more successful than it is Exactly. Porn and strip clubs are proof that men are a 100% more shallow than women. No surprise here, though. 1
brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Exactly. Porn and strip clubs are proof that men are a 100% more shallow than women. No surprise here, though. Strip clubs for women do exist though. I talk to a guy on bodybuilding.com who is a male stripper and he's wildly successful with the ladies. Also there are porn studios created by women It's about 60-40 but women get turned on by the physical as well. It's not anywhere near as big of a difference as you're making it out to be
Woggle Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I am sure women love Justin Bieber and One Direction for their incredible musical talent.
Negative Nancy Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 It's not anywhere near as big of a difference as you're making it out to be Yes, it is.
fortyninethousand322 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Exactly. Porn and strip clubs are proof that men are a 100% more shallow than women. No surprise here, though. This is what I love about your posts. Pure, rugged honesty and accurate analysis, free of any and all generalizations.
Negative Nancy Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I am sure women love Justin Bieber and One Direction for their incredible musical talent. Just as all those men loved Megan Fox for her Oscar-worthy acting skills, right
brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Just as all those men loved Megan Fox for her Oscar-worthy acting skills, right Yea and women love Channing Tatum for his brilliant acting skills? 1
Woggle Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Just as all those men loved Megan Fox for her Oscar-worthy acting skills, right I agree with you fully but it goes both ways. Britney Spears doesn't have an ounce of musical talent I knew plenty of guys back in the day who were obsessed with her.
Negative Nancy Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I am sure women love Justin Bieber and One Direction for their incredible musical talent. Or, to use a better example specifically for you, just as men love Adriana Lima for her graceful style on the catwalk and her fashion sense.
brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Or, to use a better example specifically for you, just as men love Adriana Lima for her graceful style on the catwalk and her fashion sense. Adriana Lima has no ass/hips. I'm more of a Scarlet Johannsen kind of a guy
Woggle Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Or, to use a better example specifically for you, just as men love Adriana Lima for her graceful style on the catwalk and her fashion sense. Men love her just because she is hot just like many women in America probably don't even know what sport David Beckham plays but still love him.. The point is that both men and women are equally visual. 1
betterdeal Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Yes, looks matter, as can (and does) every other feature of a person. To what degree, and which type, is a bigger question and, in short, the answer is, it differs from person to person. Some men like fat lasses; some women like weedy guys; the world is CRAZY. Now go find you're niche in this big old crazy world and stop arguing these senseless, pointless inane arguments. For Fuxache.
brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Men love her just because she is hot just like many women in America probably don't even know what sport David Beckham plays but still love him.. The point is that both men and women are equally visual. Women go crazy for beckham also because of his status and fame I don't agree on equally visual. I think it's a 60/40 split both ways. Women care a little more about status/fame/personality while men care a little more about purely physical 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Or, to use a better example specifically for you, just as men love Adriana Lima for her graceful style on the catwal[/url]k and her fashion sense. I like Shikha Dalmia because of her great writing style and policy proposals. I guess that's shallow though.
Woggle Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 There are plenty of women who enjoy for their work and not all of them are known sex symbols.
brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 There are plenty of women who enjoy for their work and not all of them are known sex symbols. I'm turned on by women who are into the same things as me If a girl has a pitbull <<<<< huge turn on If a girl likes sports <<<<<< huge turn on if a girl likes videogames <<<<<< huge turn on if a girl likes comic book movies <<<< huge turn on I don't care about status at all. Income wise, I would like her to make enough to support herself (maybe say 40-50 grand)
Woggle Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I'm turned on by women who are into the same things as me If a girl has a pitbull <<<<< huge turn on If a girl likes sports <<<<<< huge turn on if a girl likes videogames <<<<<< huge turn on if a girl likes comic book movies <<<< huge turn on I don't care about status at all. Income wise, I would like her to make enough to support herself (maybe say 40-50 grand) What I meant is that there are plenty of women who have produced music, movies and other things that I very much enjoy without it being based on their sex appeal.
brahmabull117 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 What I meant is that there are plenty of women who have produced music, movies and other things that I very much enjoy without it being based on their sex appeal. I agree somewhat. I'm not attracted to a girl who is not attractive, but an attractive girl who is a great musician = huge huge turn on I'm hugely into electronic dance music and a girl with a voice like this = mega boner
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