nichole1215 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I had a 4 year relationship that ended 9 months ago. For the first 4 or 5 months my ex and I kept seeing each other and occasianally slept together. We had one attempt at getting back together that did not work. Now my ex is dating someone else but insists we remain friends... I feel as if its too soon since I still have feelings and cant cope with the fact that my ex has moved on... I have tried dating other people but cant. What should I do? Is this new person in my ex life for real? Why remain frends? Please shere your experiences!
Crila16 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 First off, if he's in love with this new girl, he wouldn't want to stay in contact with you. It's way to recent. If I were the new girlfriend, I would say "H E double hockey sticks...No way!!!" If you're going to be friends with your ex of 4 - 5 years after only 9 months of being broken off, I'm not taking that chance of getting hurt and you 2 possibly getting back together. I'm outta here. This happened to me. I had a boyfriend who was with a girl for 3 years. They broke up and "stayed Just friends." Yeah right. was I stupid. He cheated on me with her so many times, and I didn't know it. It wasn't until I found out and said enough of the roller coaster and the on and off with you 2. I'm done. That's when he completely cut her off and finally realized he loved me (3-1/2 years later). Too late. I was done.
flitzanu Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 the simple fact that you're asking if it's too soon for friendship means yes, it is too soon.
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