hurting1982 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Ive had a really ruff patch these past few months and ive gotten used to moving on from my ex and have been dating but something still isnt right and i feel like something is missing. I have spoken to my ex a few times and even bumped into him and his new partner a few weeks ago and we all actually got on really well and it made me happy to see him and how happy he was again and even accepted his new partner and gave them both my blessing. I think if anything this has really got to me, because now what i know i miss about him is his friendship and also i had made really good friends with his best friend (who is actually his ex) who was also out that night i bumped into them and im really missing having them around because i feel lonely without them around me as we'd all clicked so well and had become really close. Its not a usual situation but i really cant cope without them to talk to for a number of personal reasons i cant really talk to anyone else about.
MCMLXXXIX Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I understand your situation. I also feel I can't confide in my "friends" because they are too involved. Sticking around your ex could possibly do more harm than good, especially if he moved on and you didn't. I suggest you date outside of your circle of friends or simply take a break from relationships altogether until you feel you can cope again.
Author hurting1982 Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 it really wouldnt do me no good to keep in contact with them. Hes definitely moved on and im more than happy for him and we'd agreed to try be friends anyway but think it was too soon before. Im certain there would be no awkwardness as we still talk but i could really do with confiding in them both
Author hurting1982 Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 (edited) plus i am also best mates with my previous ex as is he so its not like we both dont know it can work Edited July 31, 2012 by hurting1982
MCMLXXXIX Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I am not someone who maintained friendship with people I had sex with. Frankly, I don't believe in it. I don't feel I can be of much help anymore...
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