avi_28 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 So a quick rundown, I kissed another guy and told my bf -and his reaction was that he didn't care. I hv accused him for awhile now of cheating on me.. I do believe in my heart strongly that he HAS cheated on me. Since I live in a house owned by his sister she will let me out the lease a month early (September) we sleep in separate rooms now and after last night he lives w/his sister which is across the street from me. So Saturday we were gettn along - watchn the olympics and we just kept our day civil. He invited his 27 yr old nephew and his wife over and we bbq'd...later on that night he started drinking ...by 2am he was knocked out. As I sat on the couch next to him (I know I shouldn't hv but I did -. his nephew was gone already) I saw his phone and checked it... I found texts between him and the girl I feel he's cheated on me with and their texts were abt school ONLY - I then checked his texts with his male friend who was in his and this girls studu group and found a conversation between them - The guy was telln my bf that his "gf ;)" was "there" and my bf responded with some sarcastic reply sayn "she was too woman for him" but his reply seemed as a joke. I found out he (my bf ) knws where "candice" (the girl) lives... which somehow I feel like all the times he would tell me he and his group were meeting at his male friends ... now possibly could hv been HER house.. OK so as I was snoopn thru his phone I found another texts msg between him and his best friends wife...she was asking him what strength his "Medication " was...and he said "the past 4 yrs its been so..and so i take it everyday ..." I was confused and left that text alone... So I began cleaning up and I kept thnkn how weird she would ask that...so I went into his room and snooped more...founda his vitamins and supplements....then I found his HERPES medication At that moment I freaked out and woke him up... he was SO drunk he fell back asleep... I thrashed his entire room... When he finally came too (6am) he found me in my room crying and asked what was wrong and when I told him he basically told me it was none of my business ... I mean REALLY????? HAVING AN STD IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS???? I threw him out and told his sister when she asked me what happened...she understood. I went to urgent care today and told the dr what I found and him hvn HSV-2 Herpes... Right now my state of mind is so shot that I just want to die... I knw its not the answer but its how I feel bc im so alone here and he doesn't care. I really feel like beating him the f*ck up slapping the sh*t out of him When I got pregnant thr doctor had asked if we had any STD's or ever had and I haven't but he said NO I'm angry I feel so depressed and betrayed
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