Leopard Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I have a few myself, but I have never shared them. Reasons: It's only a fantasy and I would never do it in real life... ...and... If I tell him, he will do it only because I said so, not because it's in his character. (In my fantasies, if a man does something it's because he is the kind of man that would, not because I told him it would be nice). You?
mortensorchid Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I think we all do, have fantasies about all kinds of things. From the nasty to the ridiculous. You don't always have to share them if you're uncomfortable. Enough people share some of theirs here in a way, the annoynimity helps too. 1
yongyong Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 just tell us what your fantasy is..... who knows what if he had the same thought? but was afraid to tell? Recently, this woman with a husband asked me to bang her in front of her husband. this girl on OLD asked if I could bang her and her bf..... I didn't do it btw.
Eclypse Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I told my girlfriend I fantasised about doing her anally doggy style while she was going down on another girl in a 3some. Yah... Didnt go down too well. I think I managed to convince her I was only joking, and never brought up another fantasy (they get worse). 2
rocketman122 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Do you have fantasies that you don't share with your partner? pfew..too many to list..and very extreme..nothing like 2 girls together amateurish stuff. I have to keep it to myself. not many kinky woman on my level.
Feelin Frisky Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Fantasies are fair game. I think it's even OK to fantasize about someone or some other sexual situation when you're having sex with your committed partner if that helps get you excited. The only thing that matters is the loyalty you show in all your other actions. But no one should feel they have to put horse-blinders on their mind just because you're in a relationship. Just never spill any of that because it can feel like a real betrayal. 1
proseandpassion Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 It's perfectly fine to keep a fantasy to yourself, but the hope would be the partner would be game to try it out! Don't keep it to yourself--too many people make that mistake and end up disappointed. No one can read your mind.
proseandpassion Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Do you have fantasies that you don't share with your partner? pfew..too many to list..and very extreme..nothing like 2 girls together amateurish stuff. I have to keep it to myself. not many kinky woman on my level. Two girls together, like in a threesome with you? That's pretty tame stuff and I don't think any girl would be shocked to hear that's your fantasy. Most girls are just as perverted as men, you'd be surprised. 1
Radu Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 i told my girlfriend i fantasised about doing her anally doggy style while she was going down on another girl in a 3some. Yah... Didnt go down too well. I think i managed to convince her i was only joking, and never brought up another fantasy (they get worse). Get out of my head !!! I have a few hardcore ones i never mentioned to my ex. I did end up doing a few with her though ... including one where she got hunted down in a big barn full of hey.
rocketman122 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Two girls together, like in a threesome with you? That's pretty tame stuff and I don't think any girl would be shocked to hear that's your fantasy. Most girls are just as perverted as men, you'd be surprised. I said NOTHING like 2 girls together. thats too tame. NOT into threesomes. doesnt do it for me. I only want one on one.
CarrieT Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 My BF knows all of my fantasies - no big deal. We both know that fantasies are never as good as reality so they won't be acted upon. He DOES try to appease some of my forced/rape fantasies with a little roughness, but (chuckling) we both know he can't get nearly as rough as I would like him to...
ascendotum Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 He DOES try to appease some of my forced/rape fantasies with a little roughness, but (chuckling) we both know he can't get nearly as rough as I would like him to... Whats the handbrake on going further, or is it too awkward to say here? Just curious given his role as the master, why you dont get what you deserve. I confessed similar to Eclypse once, and also got the same reaction and became a bit wary after that until the right woman came along.
proseandpassion Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I said NOTHING like 2 girls together. thats too tame. NOT into threesomes. doesnt do it for me. I only want one on one. Sorry I misread your post!
proseandpassion Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Whats the handbrake on going further, or is it too awkward to say here? Just curious given his role as the master, why you dont get what you deserve. I confessed similar to Eclypse once, and also got the same reaction and became a bit wary after that until the right woman came along. Lots of trust and safewords and gradual exploration, I'd say. I would have to have limitless trust for someone before I explored a rape/consensual-nonconsent fantasy. To date I have not allowed anyone to go there with me.
todreaminblue Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I have a few myself, but I have never shared them. Reasons: It's only a fantasy and I would never do it in real life... ...and... If I tell him, he will do it only because I said so, not because it's in his character. (In my fantasies, if a man does something it's because he is the kind of man that would, not because I told him it would be nice). You? I create fantasies while I am paying for groceries i pick up a carrot or a bannana and i start to smile.....lol....people normally look abit confused when i am grinning with a carrot or a zuchinni in my hand but they tend to smile back. Your mind is a tool to paradise... yours forever without price.... fly now chickadee....come fly to the moon with me.. dream and reach for the stars, past the moon and on too mars, stretch your fingertips and touch starlight, share your fantasies with your lover tonight, drown in the pleasure of the softest touch, the one you who loves you just as much in fantasy you will always go far you will never regret where you are.....sorry lack of sleep, poem is from me to you....good luck...nerves.....eeeek... two hour deadline and I am gonna be fine i tell ya....smile.....deb
todreaminblue Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 just tell us what your fantasy is..... who knows what if he had the same thought? but was afraid to tell? Recently, this woman with a husband asked me to bang her in front of her husband. this girl on OLD asked if I could bang her and her bf..... I didn't do it btw. you wish jellyfish 2
todreaminblue Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Do you have fantasies that you don't share with your partner? pfew..too many to list..and very extreme..nothing like 2 girls together amateurish stuff. I have to keep it to myself. not many kinky woman on my level. now that is funny lol
CarrieT Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Whats the handbrake on going further, or is it too awkward to say here? Just curious given his role as the master, why you don't get what you deserve. He is a doctor and it is his nature and training to not harm, but heal. Being a Master doesn't necessarily mean he is sadistic, but he exerts his control and dominance in more psychological ways within our relationship versus causing physical pain. He HAS spanked and whipped me harder than anyone else in his past, but I believe it is still difficult for him, even though I have assented.
Author Leopard Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 It's perfectly fine to keep a fantasy to yourself, but the hope would be the partner would be game to try it out! Don't keep it to yourself--too many people make that mistake and end up disappointed. No one can read your mind. But all my fantasies are with other men (and sometimes threesomes). I don't think my bf would be too happy to hear about that Your mind is a tool to paradise... This line is the most brilliant thing i've read on this forum. YES IT IS! By the way, your picture is absolutely adorable! Is that a rotweiler? So cute!
chrissylee Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Fantasies are fair game. I think it's even OK to fantasize about someone or some other sexual situation when you're having sex with your committed partner if that helps get you excited. The only thing that matters is the loyalty you show in all your other actions. But no one should feel they have to put horse-blinders on their mind just because you're in a relationship. Just never spill any of that because it can feel like a real betrayal. Your kidding right....Its not ok to have to think about someone else to have sex with your partner. If they can't get you excited then you probably shoudn't be with them.
Casablanca Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I told my girlfriend I fantasised about doing her anally doggy style while she was going down on another girl in a 3some. Yah... Didnt go down too well. I think I managed to convince her I was only joking, and never brought up another fantasy (they get worse). That is one of mine as well and I'd never tell my gf that as it wouldnt go over well.
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Recently, this woman with a husband asked me to bang her in front of her husband. this girl on OLD asked if I could bang her and her bf..... Thanks for sharing your fantasies with us. I guess since you don't have a partner, we'll have to suffice.
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Your kidding right....Its not ok to have to think about someone else to have sex with your partner. If they can't get you excited then you probably shoudn't be with them. I disagree. I believe that people are free to think about whatever they like, even if they have a partner. I guess your boyfriend won't be sharing any of his fantasies with you anytime soon! He better not, anyway.
chrissylee Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I disagree. I believe that people are free to think about whatever they like, even if they have a partner. I guess your boyfriend won't be sharing any of his fantasies with you anytime soon! He better not, anyway. He can think about what he wants to, but if he has to think about it in order to get excited to have sex with me then I wish he would tell me so I can leave him.
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 He can think about what he wants to, but if he has to think about it in order to get excited to have sex with me then I wish he would tell me so I can leave him. Well, I would agree that if a person "has" to think about someone else, there might be a basic problem there ...
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