Enjaycee Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I've read a lot of how-to-get-your-ex back guides in the past month, but I don't think they really account for girls like my ex who is independent (ambitious, spends time by herself to do things, always busy, doesn't need a man, etc.). So, has anyone here reunited with someone who fits the description of today's "independent" woman? How? Or how would someone generally go about it? (Yes, I would like to get back with my independent ex who broke up with me twice.)
alxnrwd Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I don't have any great suggestions but I'm right there with you, my ex dumped me and is incredibly imdependent. It's a struggle, right -- because on one hand, at least for me -- I almost know I have to "out-independent" her, ignore her for a while until she sees how great I am and how much of a catch I am and how much I simply do what I want. Essentially, extend NC even further than the "breakup guides" suggest and MAKE SURE to completely DOMINATE working on myself. On the other hand, I'm struggling with the fact that I definitely know she's going to need to know that I want to be with her... so when to break NC?
BooBoo1982 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 If this is the second time she has split up with you how did you get her back the first time? The fact that you have got her back once before shows that it is something you can do and you should definitely stay positive about doing it again.
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