Lds Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I still speak to him every day if he doesn't drop in but as soon as he is gone in a mess. I don't think I can do this. How can i walk away fr this when i clearly still want him? I love him so much that I'm almost prepared to face the fact that I will always be cheated on and treated like crap by this person, but he'll be in my life. Why can't I be strong enough to leave when I know I deserve better? If you love someone do u just accept them warts and all?
sendme Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 Oh my goodness... you should read my thread... my bf cheated on me this summer, I agreed to take him back, and he cheated on me tonight and sent me pictures in real time of him doing it.... and I am sitting here thinking that I want him to take it all back and say he still wants to be with me... I have no idea how you do it, but there are a great group of people weighing in on my thread....
GotAStewGoing Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 Why would anyone want to be treated like crap? Has he just cheated on you once? Did you find out, and break up with him? I know I couldn't be with anyone who had cheated on me, even just a minor indiscretion, that trust would be totally shattered and I can't even imagine how that must feel. You deserve better, and as hard as it will be you need to cut all ties and move on. Sorry this isn't what you want to hear.
SeventhFloor Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I stayed with a girl who continuously kept cheating on me. The whole relationship, I was miserable, but I loved her so much that I stuck it through. I was so unhappy. It got to the point where I'd have emotional and physical problems like depression, anger, nausea, restlessness, etc... We've been split up for about a month now. It hurts and I miss her... But wow, I've been happier than I have been for months. Laughing every day, a lot. Even through the pain. And my "problems" are gone. Psychosomatic, eh?
Author Lds Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 Not 100% if he actually did anything but found dirty messages in his phone. Lately, nothing adds up. We have a child together, but the relationship is so unhealthy I honestly think itd be better for my baby to not be around all the fighting and bullcrap. I know that what I go thru with him is unacceptable if anyone I knew was in this type of relationship I would be begging them to leave but for some reason I just cannot walk away. If he calls I answer, if he shows up at the house, I let him in. I want to be with him when he's not around, it's like all I do is sit around and cry and hope he calls me. I can have him back whenever I want and stop feeling this way, but I know in my heart it will only be a matter of time til he hurts me again.
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