Swe3tAngel Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I had posted a thread about my love and explained how we dated for a year but now we're not talking and that he's really hurt by me (no cheating involved) and we weren't 'bf/gf' but we were together all the time and we did everything real couples do and that's one of our major fights that he wasn't giving us the name of relationship.. anyway.. finally he got up and told me about 2 months ago that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and that i should leave him alone.. after almost a month of him ignoring me.. yesterday he called me and he was crying .. but he was still telling me to leave him alone.. and that he doesnt want to talk to me ... and i was like im really sorry for hurting u ( i said some mean things reallyy cruel things but i was mad and he knew i didnt mean them i was just hurting real bad) ... but apparently that left a scar and he wants to move on.. i finally said FINE as u wish .. and hung up... he called me again an hour later... and he said the same thing again.. to not talk to him.. and i was like huh? u call to say that again? .. i mean it makes no sense.. but i cud tell the hurt in his voice n he was actually crying n telling me that theres no more chance n that im gna live with the fact that we wont talk ever again.. but y wud he call me to tell me to leave him alone.. and then for me to say fine.. and then later call me to say the same thing again??
zanzi Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 hes just attention seeking. dont read too much into it, he sounds like he is a mess. 1
Ruby65 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 Stop taking his calls. Don't reply to anything he does or says unless he's begging you for another chance..... and even THEN I wouldn't take this guy back (but that's just me!) Frankly, you don't want to be with a guy who's telling you "we're not really in a relationship" or "I don't want to be your boyfriend." You want the guy who's so crazy about you he's looking to seal the deal and looking for you to agree to be his exclusive girlfriend right away! Why trust YOUR precious heart to someone who's not even sure if he wants to be with you or not??? Learn from this disaster and move on and NEXT TIME pick someone who treats you like the amazing gift you are.
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