tryingtofindmyway24 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 (edited) Been in a relationship with my bf for over a 1.5yrs I have several posts on here in great detail, but this one is different. I have come to the conclusion where I will no longer hold on to him. He told me he stop loveing me this past friday because i told him that i didnt want to be with him anymore. He took this and got upset went back to ignoring me and we live together. I have decided to moveout without telling him. Since he has told me several times that he doesnt care if i moveout or if he ever sees me again. This will show him that I don't care either. I am tired of waiting for him to change and be someone that he will never be. So i am done and over and right not it doesnt hurt me that he told me he doesnt love me because he has showed that he doesnt by saying very nasty things to me. I already prepared myself by his actions so all i needed was conformation out of his mouth and just a hour ago he just confirmed he doesnt love me and you know what i am fine with that because he doesnt deserve me its his loss not mines.... Edited July 30, 2012 by tryingtofindmyway24 mispelled title
Gulf-Delta Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 That is terrible...but at least you know definitively. The day I moved my ex out of my house, I asked her, "Do you love me?" She said she didn't know.
Canadian731 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 If he doesn't love you then there is no point in putting any effort into it, I wouldn't be petty, atleast leave him a note or something letting him know how you feel and why you moved. Goodluck
not-a-drive-by Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I wished I was as strong as you. Being finally able to see that there is no use in holding on to someone who doesn't love you, and know that they won't change for you either.
Author tryingtofindmyway24 Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 Yea i already had the hurt feeling of me knowing that he didnt love me...you know the feeling where you can't, eat, sleeep, or breathe. I have already gotten over this because I told him how I felt about him. We got on speaking terms, but my Dad always told me, "if a man treats you a certain way and tells you certain things, then it's in his heart and he really feels that way so watch your back". With me doing what my Daddy told me I was mentally prepared that he will soon say it again. Even though just this past friday he has told me how much he loves me every single day in person and through text msg, but I wasn't buying it because I knew better. His attitude was always so unpredictable and he will flip flop all the time with me over nothing. I felt as though I was walking on pins and needles to try not to say anything to upset him. So as I mention before I am glad he gave me confirmation to move on and live my life without him in and not look back. Last week he also asked me to stay in the house with him until he saves up enough money to move out. Being the caring person that I am because i felt sorry for him I thought about it, but I made sure to keep the new rental places in mind. Just in case he pulled off this stunt again and I'm glad I didnt let my guards down.
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