budley12 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 My first love broke up with me last november and I was a wreck. We were together 3.5 years and lived together... I went to therapy after the BU and it really effected me up until July. The last time I talked to him was last December because he was ignoring me and such. I then moved to a different country and tried to start over. I met a new guy and we recently started dating. I like him however I keep wishing it was my ex and memories keep popping up. Well, the new guy finally asked me out and I made it official on facebook. Guess who messaged me??? -The ex. I still love my ex, and I don't know what to do. My ex sent me a decently sized message just stating "hope all is well in your new country" and other things, and then said he was upset when he saw I was in a new relationship and that it will hurt him seeing me without him. I still love my ex with all my heart, but I loved who he was... what if he isn't the same? What do I do about my new relationship, because I feel that now it is a lie because all i think about is my ex. I could really use some advice, thanks.
AnchordHeart Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 You shouldnt be with your new man unless you truely feel you want a relationship with HIM. I'm not saying bury your feelings with your ex, but honestly, your in two different countries and he really hurt you. I think the best thing to do is start LC and see what develops from your new relationship.
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