ladiesmentor Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 [sIZE=2]Hey Loveshack,[/sIZE] [sIZE=2] [/sIZE] [sIZE=2]New forum member here. I just wanted to get your take on my online dating situation. I signed up for match.com and pof. Wanted to try something different. I have spent three months this year trying it. Match.com was ok, so I canceled it. POF, I've gotten decent replys. Long story short here. Saw a profile of a woman I really liked, and was attracted to on POF. I'm a 28 year old male and she's 24. I don't think she was on POF that long. Maybe two or three weeks. Now, I sent her my first message on the 26 of July. Then she responded to my suprise that sameday. Sent another message, and then she responded.The third message, she didn't respond. I bet she got flooded with messages.[/sIZE] [sIZE=2] [/sIZE] [sIZE=2]After that, I just kept looking on POF. After a while, I just got tired of the online dating game. I wanted to try real life for a while. If nothing worked, then I would try a online dating site in five or so months. Before I closed my POF profile, I sent her a message saying I was deleting my page. I left my email address in the message stating I would like to keep in touch. Also, I said if you don't respond then best of luck on POF or something like that. I was ready to move on. So a day after I closed my POF profile, I see that she sent me a message via my email address. She apologised for not reaching me before I closed my profile. She said she was happy that I left my contact info (only email addy). Then we went back and forth through email communicating. I had an older blank POF profile account from way back and was going to delete it today. I was curious to see if she was still on POF. So I checked via POF's user name search box, and she deleted her account. I just find it a coincidence that she closed her account close to the time I closed mine. Not reading much into it though. Maybe she just didn't find anybody she liked. [/sIZE] [sIZE=2] [/sIZE] [sIZE=2]As of now, I'm back and forth with her through email. Bottom line is a like her a lot, and going full force.So my quesiton is what would be a good step up with communication with her besides email? Going back and forth thorough email can be annoying. I wanted to ask for her number, but I'm not sure if I should? Thanks for any suggestions.[/sIZE] [sIZE=2] [/sIZE] [sIZE=2][/sIZE]
Ami1uwant Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 You got her to reply to you...ask her to meet in person ASAP....stop being a pen pal.
SJC2008 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 Tell her you'd like to meet her and to message you her number so you can call her an plan something out. I usually get the number by the 3rd email so I can pretty much guarentee she'll give it to you.
Author ladiesmentor Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Tell her you'd like to meet her and to message you her number so you can call her an plan something out. I usually get the number by the 3rd email so I can pretty much guarentee she'll give it to you. I thought about this and just asked her for her number via email. Right now I'm just waiting for her to reply. I would be completely baffled if she doesn't respond. Just saying if she doesn't-why go through all that just to tell me your sorry that you didn't reach before I deleted my account and your glad you had my info? This is a scenario that could happen. Thanks for the advice.
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