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I really like this guy I have been dating for two mouths he has always tryed to get with me before and I always turned him down but for some reason I gave him a chance he would text me everyday and call me after he got off work now he don't text that much anymore and he don't call me after he gets off work. When he dose text it's for a min and he tells me he loves me and I don't here from him till a day or two later I'm really getting tired of it I really do like him and don't want to lose him but I would really like to know what to do * Do I call it off are just wait to see what happens*

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Maybe he just has a lot going on right now, I would say don't jump to conclusions and I would say you understand what he is going through and be a good girlfriend and support him because if you don't, he will be out that door

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The "thrill of the hunt" is over for him...he finally got you and what he wanted.

 

Now you're into him and he can back away and take his time with things and not have to show much interest because now he has you wrapped around his finger giving him all this attention.

 

You've got to open up the communication with him and start asking him questions about how he feels and where he stands in this relationship and how the lack of contact is unacceptable for this relationship to you.

 

Relationships are about compatibility, a dynamic that many people don't understand and just think it's about wrapping your whole world around someone, that's just part of it, it takes many levels going simultaneously as well as both people being invested and dedicated to making each other happy/satisfied in the relationship, it's about understanding one another, knowing what can and can't change and what you're willing to accept.

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It's pretty rude of him not to respond to your texts.

It was pretty rude of her to jerk him around.

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