tryingtofindmyway24 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I need advice on how to have NC when we still live in the same house. My bf and I broke up about a week ago. I still love him and care for him deeply, but its time for me to move on. He is totally over me well atleast that's how he acts. we have been together for 1.5yrs and lived together the whole time we been in a relationship. This was the first time i have ever lived with a bf before and I think thats what tore us apart. Being together everyday except for work or school. We argued about everything and every little thing. Now we're like roommates, but he completely ignores me and as soon as we broke up he recreatd his facebook page and started talking to alot of girls the same day we broke up. I don't understand how he could just disrespect me by trying to hook up with other people when it was the same day we broke up. We still could have gotten back together considering the fact that we live together. He doesn't see anything wrong with talking to other people because were broken up. I do because we still live together and I don't believe in disrespect him by trying to go out with other guys knowing that he is at home even if we're not together. I cannot just turn off my feelings and act as though we were never together like he does after us living and being together for 1.5yrs. He wants me to kiss his butt and i don't understand why because he is the one that should kiss my butt since I pay all the bill and rent he does nothing, but lives here leeching off of me. I plan on moving out without telling him so that he would be stuck paying the rent on his own (which I know he cannot afford). If i did this it would be mean, but he keeps telling me that he doesn't care if i move out or if he never sees me ever again....what should i do?? Thanks
LoverOfDance Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 Move out. That's the only way to get over someone with NC. If you still live with them, you could ignore them but that won't do much 4 you if you're trying to get over them. It will only create a lot of tension and awkwardness. Move out or tell him to move out.
Author tryingtofindmyway24 Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 I have decided to move out already he told me he doesnt love me anymore so why should i continue to hold on to him...whats the point?
Tyler. Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 Move on ASAP. He's just acting like an *******, if he tried hooking up with other girls while still living with you. He doesn't even deserve the time you spend thinking of him. No matter how much you loved him, realise you've misjudged his character. Cut your losses and just leave, it's for your own good.
Author tryingtofindmyway24 Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 Yea i know what you mean and this makes it all better because i don't feel sad inside or have a deep heart anymore...could this mean that I already stopped loving him too? When he told me he doesnt love me I wasn't hurt it was the feeling of confirmation thats all..
Sugarkane Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Whenever I read these threads I think if that's the way he treats you, what do these new girls of his think they'll do to them! If it's them one day.
Author tryingtofindmyway24 Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Whenever I read these threads I think if that's the way he treats you, what do these new girls of his think they'll do to them! If it's them one day. I know right thats what I said, but I'm sure he didn't tell them about me so they will never know...
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