J0N Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Well it has been a long time since my ex dumped me after nearly two years together. For the most part, things between us were pretty giood. I really thought that she was going to be the girl I was going to marry. The last two years without her have really been a roller coaster. I have for the most part, moved on. I live in a new city now, and have a great job. It always kind of bothered me that we broke up and then went our seperate ways. Seriously not one word between us, I thought she just dropped me and as far as I was ever concerned, I never existed to her. We have had absolutely zero contact in the last two years.` I noticed a couple weeks ago that her roommate (girl who convinced her to dump me, at least that is what I think) looked up my Linkedin profile. I really didnt think much of it but then on Friday my ex looked at my profile (I paid to have this feature, it was helpful during my job search). I guess it is nice to know that she at least thought of me. I am not going to reach out to her because I think it would be a bad idea. I have the feeling that her curiosity is getting the best of her and she just might reach out. What do you think? I am not sure how I should/would handle it. If she did I would be nice, but make it appear if I had totally moved on I think. I dont really know what to think, this is a pretty minor event. But since it is the only confimed thing she has done towards me in the last 2 years it has gotten me wondering.. For those of you who are unfamiliar with my story. Here is a link to one of my original threads. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/258947-extreme-pining Thanks for any input. Not sure what to think
BrokenMirror Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Well it has been a long time since my ex dumped me after nearly two years together. For the most part, things between us were pretty giood. I really thought that she was going to be the girl I was going to marry. The last two years without her have really been a roller coaster. I have for the most part, moved on. I live in a new city now, and have a great job. It always kind of bothered me that we broke up and then went our seperate ways. Seriously not one word between us, I thought she just dropped me and as far as I was ever concerned, I never existed to her. We have had absolutely zero contact in the last two years.` I noticed a couple weeks ago that her roommate (girl who convinced her to dump me, at least that is what I think) looked up my Linkedin profile. I really didnt think much of it but then on Friday my ex looked at my profile (I paid to have this feature, it was helpful during my job search). I guess it is nice to know that she at least thought of me. I am not going to reach out to her because I think it would be a bad idea. I have the feeling that her curiosity is getting the best of her and she just might reach out. What do you think? I am not sure how I should/would handle it. If she did I would be nice, but make it appear if I had totally moved on I think. I dont really know what to think, this is a pretty minor event. But since it is the only confimed thing she has done towards me in the last 2 years it has gotten me wondering.. For those of you who are unfamiliar with my story. Here is a link to one of my original threads. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/258947-extreme-pining Thanks for any input. Not sure what to think If she reaches out to you, maybe you should respond. Talking to her doesn't have to mean that something will happen. Try to keep the conversation short and formal, I wouldn't bring up any details as to new girlfriends etc. Keep it short, and impersonal. If she asks, avert it. I've been broken up with my ex for 5 months and I still visit his facebook, we're not friends, but I can see his profile still.
karissa73 Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I'm kind of puzzled myself..my ex dumped me a month ago and he's been on my profile 15 times the week before and 19 times last week. I've not looked at his and have removed any traces of him from all of my profiles, including youtube so that he won't think every song I 'like' is a nod to him. She is probably curious about how you're doing nowadays...mine is probably just trying to lure me into begging him back, but I won't do it.
Gulf-Delta Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I'm kind of puzzled myself..my ex dumped me a month ago and he's been on my profile 15 times the week before and 19 times last week. I've not looked at his and have removed any traces of him from all of my profiles, including youtube so that he won't think every song I 'like' is a nod to him. She is probably curious about how you're doing nowadays...mine is probably just trying to lure me into begging him back, but I won't do it. How do you know he's looking at your facebook?
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