littleboylost Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Hi all. I am new to dating, so need advice. I have been in relationship for 5 years which has just ended, and I am trying to move on. Anyway, I met a really nice girl on the morning bus to work the other day. I spoke to her and managed to get her number. Anyway, I texted her that evening asking her if she wanted to go out for a drink. A day later, she replied but with a more general answer asking how I was doing etc. I replied, and we started txting. She was quite flirtatious, putting in lots of smiley faces etc, so I responded. Anyway, I asked her out during this exchange of texts and she agreed. I guess she just wanted to get to know me a little. Anyway, we went out last night. I took her out to a wine bar, and we had a couple of drinks. She seemed to be having a good time, I think we were both a little nervous. Anyway, I enjoyed myself, and I am sure she did. She was giving plenty of signals. After dinner, I asked what she wanted to do. I said I would invite her back to my place, but that my flatmates were probably up having a wild party, hinting I would prefer to go to hers (she has her own place). She said, well let's just walk home and see from there. So I just followed her, and we chatted along the way. I could tell she was nervous because she was talking jibberish. And I guess I was also getting a little nervous, because I hadn't dated for 5 years. Anyway, we reached her house, and said goodbye. She just gave me a peck on the cheek. But I got the strong impression, she didn't want anything else to happen that night. I got home and said thanks for the cool night. We flirted a bit and then said good night. I fear I may have been a little needy at that point though, because I said if she needed company to just give me a shout. To which she replied she was feeling sleepy, thanks, and good night. Anyway, this afternoon, I sent a txt saying good morning, and asking if she had slept well, and asked her if she wanted to meet again next week. It has been about 5 hours and I have not had a reply. I am freaking out inside. I really like this girl, and am scared she doesn't like me, or is feeling like I am coming on too strong. What is going on! I need female input especially.
Art_Critic Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 You texted her that.... What is wrong with calling her.. dating is about getting to know one another and texting removes that. As far as what you can do now.. either call her or just let it go.
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