jobaba Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 When I was 18 and at a fraternity party, a girl asked me to dance. She was really short, like under 4'9", and I felt kind of funny about it even though I'm really short myself. I think she sensed it and told me I didn't have to dance if I didn't want to. So I went back to go hang with my friends. I felt pretty bad about feeling like that. God, I still remember it. That was a long time ago... Today, I wouldn't have even have thought about it.
eleanorhurting Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Didn't date someone because they were 2 inches shorter than me. I'm 5'5 1
ThaWholigan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Was at a club once, and pretty much ignored every other girl in favor of the one hottest girl in the place. 100% physically my type she was. I was even approached that night, and I slyly shuffled away without them noticing....
USMCHokie Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 How about playing the "what's the most shallow thing someone has ever done to you in dating" game...? 2
jobaba Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 How about playing the "what's the most shallow thing someone has ever done to you in dating" game...? Oh ... Well I have PAGES of stories if that's the case.
jobaba Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Didn't date someone because they were 2 inches shorter than me. I'm 5'5 I'll be honest. I'm surprised women even consider that shallow. 1
Rosie88 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I'm a tall girl and it's important to me that a potential mate be about my height or taller. I don't necessarily consider it shallow, it's just a personal preference.
rocketman122 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 6' 1" and I will not date any girl taller than 5' 6". I have to take into consideration that she'll wear hells..she better wear heels HAHA shortest would be 5' 2" In fact I got a message from this gorgeous blonde right now while online, but she's too tall for me.. with heels, she'll be taller than me. I dont want her leaning on me..how emasculating..
Necromancer Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Trying to date gals when they had nothing beyond looks, feels good that i am starting to grow up and place much more value on personality since cute gals are everywhere, but a personality witch matches mine is very rare.
samsungxoxo Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Didn't continue dating a guy that had mild-severe acne. There is a point where physical attraction comes to play also. If the person you're seeing for the first time is so grotesque looking that you can't even kiss him/her on the cheek or overlook that than you have to reject them still (but with class).
todreaminblue Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 (edited) Just curious. my first ex .....i loved him as a friend.....i really wasnt ready for a relationship.....these four guys were really harassing me to go out with them.......they check themselves out in reflective surfaces...come on....no interest...these girls were scamming col the spruiker, on the door he had gone into get some money to give them about 300 bucks they asked me you on the scam i just sort of shrugged...... leant up against a post otuside the door....you should ****ing try the freaks so stupid.....i just looked at them....he came back out smiling and he seen me.....heyyyy what are you doing back deb......well i thought i needed to say hi and here you are about to be scammed by two gimps who are calling you a freak and giving them the money you need to take me out tonight....whats you choice dickhead them or me......rest is history.....it was sort of shallow because he was like my little brother....but i did and do love him.....and eh is still like my little brother....he is older than me though.and that is why the sexual relationship ended .....lol....deb Edited July 29, 2012 by todreaminblue
Phennyphen Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I was in a club and my friend brought these two hella hugly old guys over to me, like one each. And normally I'd of chatted, been polite, but made it clear I wasnt interested, been friednly you know. But I was so twatted I just keot saying 'absolutley not! Absolutley not!' over and over again until they left Oops
MaxNoob Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Refusing a girl who had been asking me out for 3 years and then finally saying yes once she lost weight. 3
todreaminblue Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 How about playing the "what's the most shallow thing someone has ever done to you in dating" game...? looked on teh surface and harassing to date me without knowing the real thing....thats shallow
USMCHokie Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 looked on teh surface and harassing to date me without knowing the real thing....thats shallow But everyone does that...basic surface trait theory...people judge initial dateworthiness on surface traits such as physical appearance...
todreaminblue Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 But everyone does that...basic surface trait theory...people judge initial dateworthiness on surface traits such as physical appearance... we have had this argument before this battleship of surface traits......whether everyone does it including me .......doesnt make it rihgt....genocide has been done by quite a few but it doesnt make it right.who has the book and has authored this is how it is so suck it up..people suck.i am thinking cuttle fish is a good species....im switching..deb
Author Leopard Posted July 29, 2012 Author Posted July 29, 2012 Refusing a girl who had been asking me out for 3 years and then finally saying yes once she lost weight. I don't think this is shallow because... ...everyone does that...basic surface trait theory...people judge initial dateworthiness on surface traits such as physical appearance...
todreaminblue Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I don't think this is shallow because... I agree i give up arguing... lets all be cuttle fish....people are fickle animals....cuttle fish will sometimes eat their mate after sex....now thats deep and they all look the same you cant even see their penis or vagina..so it doesnt matter...just saying...lot less fickle....and they have multi legs gotta luv that...well men would mainly.....deb
iris219 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I forced myself to go on a date with a guy who looked like Orlando Bloom even though I knew I didn't like him. I got back together with my ex several times mainly because he's very attractive.
todreaminblue Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I got up and walked out of the room when I saw she had a beef curtain. whats a beef curtain I met her in a club down in old Soho Where you drink champagne and it tastes just like cherry-cola [LP version: Coca-cola] C-o-l-a cola She walked up to me and she asked me to dance I asked her her name and in a dark brown voice she said Lola L-o-l-a Lola lo-lo-lo-lo Lola Well I'm not the worlds most physical guy But when she squeezed me tight she nearly broke my spine Oh my Lola lo-lo-lo-lo Lola Well I'm not dumb but I can't understand Why she walked like a woman and talked like a man Oh my Lola lo-lo-lo-lo Lola lo-lo-lo-lo Lola [ Lyrics from: Lola Lyrics - Kinks ] Well we drank champagne and danced all night Under electric candlelight She picked me up and sat me on her knee And said dear boy wont you come home with me Well I'm not the worlds most passionate guy But when I looked in her eyes well I almost fell for my Lola Lo-lo-lo-lo Lola lo-lo-lo-lo Lola Lola lo-lo-lo-lo Lola lo-lo-lo-lo Lola I pushed her away I walked to the door I fell to the floor I got down on my knees Then I looked at her and she at me Well that's the way that I want it to stay And I always want it to be that way for my Lola Lo-lo-lo-lo Lola Girls will be boys and boys will be girls It's a mixed up muddled up shook up world except for Lola Lo-lo-lo-lo Lola Well I left home just a week before And I'd never ever kissed a woman before But Lola smiled and took me by the hand And said dear boy I'm gonna make you a man Well I'm not the worlds most masculine man But I know what I am and I'm glad I'm a man And so is Lola Lo-lo-lo-lo Lola lo-lo-lo-lo Lola by the kinks is that what you meant?
2sure Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Went to a Christmas party as the date of a man I had zero interest in so I could meet and befriend his female boss.
jobaba Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Shallowness is all subjective. By some people's definitions nobody is shallow. I think it it is actually more important to date someone with your same degree of shallowness than degree of attractiveness. I deal with friends I feel are a little shallow from time to time but if it were someone I'd have to spend my life with, no way I could deal with such a person. 1
It's Just Me Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I dumped a guy after he told me (and demonstrated, unfortunately) that he had never been able to get an erection in his life, and never would see a doctor about it, because he hated doctors. But other women were okay with that, and he expected me to be okay with it. As I've said before - I cannot be a sexual vegetarian. I like my meat. 1
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