Arated Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Hi, So here is the story. I came to know this girl about 5-6 years back when they moved to my mothers neighborhood. In 2007 I briefly went out with her then recently divorced older sister, but I soon ended it in a very civil and dignified way due to our personality differences. She has since gotten married and we remain friends. Earlier this year I met them at a common friends party and me and the younger sister, she is 2 years younger to me(FYI) had always been friends, really hit it off. To my surprise she followed up next day with a txt msg. After a few exchanged msges, we went out for a movie followed by dinner. It was a good eve but I cudnt make any moves as I was too conscious of my relationship with her sis in past and didnt know how she felt. We didnt interact much but a few weeks later again met at the tracks where we spent the day from noon till 6 and then drove around and chilled in my car till midnight! This trend followed this time around too when we went for the movies and after the show finished midnight she stayed in my car till 3am just talking! Now I know some of you would be thinking that what else does she need to do before I take the hint Well its a li'l more complicated then that. these three spectacular dates came in a duration of 2 1/2 months. We seldom exchange msges and almost no phone calls. Her body language is warm but not intimate and even though we spend so much time together when we meet , fine may be I cant take the conversation in that direction but she doesn't initiate anything either - may be I'm too conscious or maybe she is just not that into me. I'm scared to make a move and be rejected but then with her spending all this time makes me wonder may be there is something there which I must pursue. Serious advise plz....Thanks P.S. I really like her.
Author Arated Posted July 29, 2012 Author Posted July 29, 2012 Thanks and I will but I wanted to see if any girl here had a similar experience, advise on may be why it is so and most importantly a good way to make the next move.
Author Arated Posted July 29, 2012 Author Posted July 29, 2012 Wow - I really thought there wud be more advice.
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