leutseym Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Hello, Well my story, so much like other's...we lived together for 10 years, his kids came every weekend for the last 6 years. The kids mom (his high school sweetheart) just recently became single, bought a new house...and I'm sure you know the rest...yes, he moved out of our place, right into her's and the kids new home. I know I should be happy for the kids, they have their parents together again, and get to live as a family together. I feel so betrayed not only from him, but from her as well, she knew how much I loved their kids. Now I am left alone along with my 10 year old dog (who loved him so much), to try and move on knowing he is happy, their happy, and he will never come back to us. He won't have any contact what so ever with me. I run a storage facility with the apartment on site, so how do I not "dwell" on this, and move on? I have been here for over 6 years, and he lived here all this time until just a month ago when it happened. I cannot get away to do things to help take away the thoughts that are obsessing my mind, plus my dog is 10, and freaks now when I am away. He waits every day (at the same time) for him to come home from work, it breaks my heart to see how sad he is also. I want to move on so badly so I don't have to feel this sick, empty and aloneness anymore, but how can I when I am here working all the time, and live here also? My friends are sick of seeing me down, I am reading self help books, but I cannot stop thinking of how happy they are, and knowing he doesn't care at all about me anymore, nor our dog who loved him more than anybody in the world. I am left trying to deal with being single, and not a couple with him, who is now a couple with her. I need to get over it, but it is devastatingly difficult. I don't get away to meet new people, just ones that come to rent a storage. I run it alone, so after the office closes is the only time I have to work on keeping up with the grounds/units clean, any maintenance...I don't want to sound like a pity party, I just want to get over him and our life we had here together.
OsiStruck Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 He's a lying worthless coward.... Listen, my boyfriend of 15 years went on 2 week vacation to go back home overseas and came back to let me know he was getting married.... talk about being thrown for a loop.... i was done! And i think you should be too!!
Author leutseym Posted July 29, 2012 Author Posted July 29, 2012 Wow, I am so sorry...that's horrible. I just don't get how cold blooded they can be. It is just so hard to accept that they really don't care about what they have done to us. I was told they are narcassist? I have read up on the the "disorder", and it does mirror his personality, or lack of! I am trying so hard to move on. Thank you for your reply!
hk_1 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Some people .... infact many people are like this in today's world, it doesn't matter a bit for him I am sure but for you it must be a huge set back, why? because you do not see people as a spare wheel, Please be good to yourself, you are a wonderful person I know! and you deserve the best, look for a good man for yourself they are out there in all sizes and shapes and it doesn't matter how old you are someone better is always out there for you its just a matter of a little patience and wisdom and pls do not let others take advantage of your loneliness get yourself a real man.
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