spiderowl Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I'm a bit stumped about this guy. I've know him - well as a distant acquaintance - for a few years but just recently started to feel more interested in him. We never did more than say hello in passing before so this is a bit new. I can't tell if the guy likes me though. I've seen him looking a few times but he's also very good at staring into space. He sits looking thoughtful, at no-one in particular. He has made an effort to communicate once or twice recently, mostly about the hobby we share when we are at related events. I feel he might be interested but maybe I'm just imagining it because I am. I do feel a spark when I talk to him and he has smiled, which is rare. He's a bit inscrutible. Is there any way to tell? I think we're both quite shy people and good at hiding feelings.
Author spiderowl Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 Yes, I guess it's not a lot to go on.
brahmabull117 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 We're not mind readers. Engage him in conversation and see how he responds /thread
Author spiderowl Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 He's not much of a talker - with anyone not just me - but I have tried. He has asked me things too so he's made an effort, which I was quite surprised at. It's just usually a bit clearer if a guy's interested.
brahmabull117 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 He's not much of a talker - with anyone not just me - but I have tried. He has asked me things too so he's made an effort, which I was quite surprised at. It's just usually a bit clearer if a guy's interested. How come you're attracted to him if you've never talked to him and don't see him talk to others either?
Author spiderowl Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 He might be quiet but he seems a decent guy, is a talented musician and is well-respected by everyone I know. I think he's quite shy.
McMahal Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 (edited) Girl this ain't 1950 haha. Instead of interpreting signs, waiting for action, and watching from afar, make a move. Approach and make conversation. Be consistent. Be assertive. The only way you will know is if you do something. Watching two shy people trying to get together requires a tremendous amount of patience lol. Edited July 30, 2012 by McMahal
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