steelgator Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Hey Everyone, if you don't know my situation here is a link to the story. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/333733-weird-no-contact-situation So basically it has been about 3.5 weeks since I sent that apology text. I went to my fraternity house party this weekend and went up to one of my friends who had just spoken to my ex and he jokingly told her that I was there and he said she just got this pissed look on her face and walked away from him. I did not go up to her during the party but she was staring at me I could tell through my peripherals. Her roommate/best friend came up and gave me a hug so Idk if that means anything but we are friends so she was just being nice. So the next day I just said that I'd like to make amends in person but understand if she is not wanting to see me right now. She just replied that she would rather give it some more time. So i just replied sounds good and left it at that. I figured that since it had been over a month since our last fight that maybe she would have calmed down and we could be "friends" like she wants. But i go back up in another 3 weeks so I guess I'll just wait til then to see if she's ready. This just sucks she has to keep me down like this. I'm one of those people that can't stand not being on good terms with others as I am a very caring and thoughtful person.
Balzac Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Whoa. Get your life back and get yourself a new girl. Nothing good will come of this relationship. Have fun in the frat social culture, be a happy guy and skip the drama w this immature girl.
Author steelgator Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 Whoa. Get your life back and get yourself a new girl. Nothing good will come of this relationship. Have fun in the frat social culture, be a happy guy and skip the drama w this immature girl. It's very easy for an outsider to say these things. this is not helpful to me when I care deeply about this girl. Don't reply if you don't have anything helpful to say regarding reconciling
ProjectSiK Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 It's very easy for an outsider to say these things. this is not helpful to me when I care deeply about this girl. Don't reply if you don't have anything helpful to say regarding reconciling Listen dude, no offense or anything, but the people here usually know what they're talking about. It has nothing to do with being an "outsider." You're on a forum where people, in one way or another, have been hurt or left by someone they "deeply care about" or were even madly in love with. No need to take the offensive, that person offered their advice in a very nice way. There's a different between asking for advice and wanting someone to sugar-coat your situation for you. People here are real and they're going to be straight up with you, if you can't handle/acknowledge what people are saying to you then I'd say go somewhere else. 1
Sav Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 Listen dude, no offense or anything, but the people here usually know what they're talking about. It has nothing to do with being an "outsider." You're on a forum where people, in one way or another, have been hurt or left by someone they "deeply care about" or were even madly in love with. No need to take the offensive, that person offered their advice in a very nice way. There's a different between asking for advice and wanting someone to sugar-coat your situation for you. People here are real and they're going to be straight up with you, if you can't handle/acknowledge what people are saying to you then I'd say go somewhere else. mmhmm..i agree. Everyone on this forum has been hurt before and knows the pain from going through a breakup. Kinda rude to call a person an "outsider" and even go on to insult his/her advice. Sheesh, some people need to grow up and stop asking people to feed them lies
ellllllarose Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 if you broke up with her and want her back, she's hurt. you better work your ass off for it.
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