ps226 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 (edited) Hello smart and helpful people on LoveShack. Recently I've been in a bit of a dillema, as you can tell by my thread title. I'll get straight to it: So there's this girl who I work with (not every day) who has just been flirting with me constantly. It really didn't start off obvious to me. One day she came into work with her parents and she talked to me for a bit, but it was nothing crazy. I went over to a friends house one night, just hanging out like normal, and for some reason she came up in the conversation and we talked about how she was probably the best looking girl at work ha. He basically challenged me to see if I could get her interested in me. I didn't really take it to heart, and I talked to her whenever she was at work, but it was nothing crazy. Then one day at work (around 1 month ago) her parents came to where I worked and I helped them out and after that they asked where their daughter was, and said she just went on break. When she came back from break I told her that her parents were just here and she started blushing and whatever, I really didn't think it was a big deal I was just being nice haha. But after that she just flirted with me constantly the rest of the day, I was really surprised. It was just small stuff like being a pain in the ass on purpose and laughing with me, you know the small taunting type of stuff. I again really didn't take this to heart, I just assumed she wanted to be nice because I went out of my way to tell her something I guess. But that was one month ago, and ever since then she's been all over me and won't leave me alone at work. I don't have her number and she doesn't use facebook, but I'm 100% positive if I asked I could get her number. But that's where my main problem comes in...she has a boyfriend and he works in the same store. I knew he worked there with her, but I really didn't think about it until recently. The guy is kind of a douche, at least I think he is. Honestly don't know what she sees in the small skinny dude who thinks he's all that. He's ugly too haha. But he doesn't work often and she has never brought him up around me. The one time where I could even say it mattered was when he showed up one day and took her off to the side and they were talking, doing boyfriend/girlfriend talk you know. But then he left and she was back talking to me. You see they both go to the same school, and are part of the same friendgroup that seemed to have been friends since junior high (I'm just assuming here, I haven't actually asked). I'm going into my first year of college and she's turning a junior (although I'm very young, I could still be a Senior in highschool and still not be the oldest in my class, second oldest, and even third!), so there is no friendships we have in common. Hell even my friends at work really don't associate with her often. Plus they've only been dating since I think someone said October or November, and it's a highschool relationship so it can't be that serious right? I really don't know, and I don't want to be "that guy" who messes up a relationship, but she just seems really into me and is just so fun to be around. I plan on just giving it time and getting a good friendship, because honestly I wouldn't be angry at that. But when I bring up a sexual joke, and she goes along with the jokes she has to be a bit attracted to me right ? *shrug*. I will admit she is naturally flirty, and I see it with other guys, but around me it's just different. Not because I want to believe it's different and want to reassure myself, it actually is different. I really just don't know how to go about this or if I'm doing the right thing. I suppose asking strangers on the internet will make me feel better ha. My friends just say go for it, all is fair in love and war. Thanks, sorry the lengthy post! Btw, I do have other "flings" at the moment, so it's not like I've obsessing over this girl. just find her the best looking, best personality, and just plain awesome. Just curious. Edited July 28, 2012 by ps226
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