Sunshine47 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I was with my ex for 7 years. We had a good relationship but we had ups and downs. My ex left me at the beginning of this year for another girl who I know he was talking to before we split. She moved in with him 2 weeks after we broke up. He contacted me 5 months after saying he misses me, it's not the same without me, he doesn't feel the same way for her as he does me etc. He also said he thought the grass was greener but it isn't. We spoke for a couple of weeks online but agreed to meet up purely as friends. We did meet up and we both agreed we could feel the feelings still there. We met up more times afterwards and we did have sex on a couple of occasions which I did feel bad about but it just happened. He said he loved me and was going to leave her for me. About 4 weeks ago now I asked him what he wanted and he said he needed time to think.. I said I need to know now if it's over between us and he said "I think so". I can't write everything he said to me on here but he wrote some stuff I don't think he wrote for nothing about how he feels for me etc. I just don't know why he is doing this to me? Surely he wouldn't have met up and slept with me etc if he was so happy with this girl. Anyone have any advice
tachan Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Sorry to say it feels like he wants dinner and dessert. I think you should move on before you get hurt.
Author Sunshine47 Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 Sure he would. Why though? Because if you were happy with someone surely you wouldn't go looking for something else too.. ?
YorickBrown Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Why though? Because if you were happy with someone surely you wouldn't go looking for something else too.. ? Duh! How naive can you be? Haven't you ever heard the expression: "the more the merrier" ? Happiness, Bliss, Satisfaction (or whatever you may want to call it) does NOT and perhaps will NEVER ensure or guarantee Loyalty or Faithfulness or Fidelity. Human nature (or maybe just Nature itself), will always evolve primarily to "look for and have the next best thing"
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