BeatRev Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I have been in a relationship with this girl for almost 2 years. Throughout our relationship she had cheated on me (while "really ****ed up") but I was in a bad place and took her back. This was about 4 or 5 months after we started spending nearly every night together. Then, the next summer I was going through her phone because she was acting suspicious. I found texts to a guy regarding a "naked makeout sesh," as well as other texts to an ex-bf that weren't too bad, but were not what I wanted to hear. Because I didn't have any proof of action being taken on this incident, I kept with her. I realize that emotional cheating is worse for girls, but these texts were pretty emotional. Now it is this summer and she moved 50 miles away from my town back to live and work with her dad for the summer. So far she has lied about stuff she does with friends and who she does it with. I go to see her every once and a while and she comes to see me too. But with our history and her lying I can't tell what is what. Sometimes she acts really weird and withdrawn almost. Her parents got divorced the past spring, and I understand it must be hard for her, but idk if that would send her off the brink so much that she doesn't care about cheating on me. Basically it's hard to know what she is doing at night when we aren't together, she usually says hanging out with her dad or reading. But I checked her phone for the time once and read "Are we watching that movie tonight?" I brought it up and she was like "ya me and my friends are having a movie day what's wrong with that?" And the thing is, she has lots of guy friends and hangs out with them, as well as smokes weed. Any advice/similar situations?
veggirl Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Dump her. Geez, this is what you get when you take back a cheater. You taught her she can cheat and get away with it. She texted a guy about a naked make out sesh and that was not proof enough to you that it happened? Even though she had ALREADY proven herself as CHEATER?! Geez dude WAKE UP.
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