Author Bob_Funk Posted July 29, 2012 Author Posted July 29, 2012 I know a guy like that too although he's definitely handsome in the face Hell that guy has been with a 100+ women and he's super broke. I sometimes wonder what universe these LS men live in The median's 4 tops. I can assure you your friend hasn't been with over 100 civillian women, unless he has no standards. What world are YOU living in?
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 29, 2012 Author Posted July 29, 2012 My friend now has no money, no job, average height and looks but a gorgeous girl friend who pursued him. His personality is great though. Yao Ming is 7'6". Therefore, all Asians are tall.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Let the OP do what pleases him. If he doesn't have any inclination in going through headache times in trying to date women, I don't blame him. Yeah, that would be fine except for the fact that the OP actually isn't very happy to begin with, with this section of his life.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Being creepy in your family is normal I see. Lol....that was the same response I had.
todreaminblue Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I'm tired of this "better with age" hogwash that's so popular on forums and in the media. The truth is beauty is the only thing worth having, and youth is beauty. On paper, I appear to have a really good life right now. I'm self-sufficient, make great money compared to my peers, and am getting laid more than ever (escorts). But I'd give all that up to not have 18 year old girls immediately dismiss me as a potential romantic prospect based on my age. how do you know what is truth......truth i sactually often ugly warped sad tragic and haunting......do you know what you should use the word to use for youth.......innocence...... beauty.......happiness good life.......freedom to be who you are and be respected romantic prospect......hard to find takes effort and time and patience 18 year old......should be planning dreaming saving for a journey wherever she may want to go in the world.....big hearted and hopeful.full of love for the people in the street...not too date......not waiting for you or any other guy.... life is too short.....you need to meet many people not just one....this is what i tell my younger girls before they reach 18.....there are many mums like me....buster...dont come knocking on my door.....my girls have dreams
kaylan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Its not a myth because i don't mean sexually, I mean overall dating potential. This thread is about physical and sexual peak isnt it? Thats the 20s for everyone. 1
kaylan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 It's not about what you believe. I know women like to tell themselves 40 is the new 30 and 55 is the new 20 but the bottom line is most men are incredibly visual and women start to decline physically at 20-22. Which isn't to say they look a worn leather jacket by 25 but skin problems and obesity aside a 30 year old woman won't look better than she did when she was 20. Decline at 22? You cant be serious. You must live around a bunch of losers who have crappy genetics and dont take care of themselves 1
samsungxoxo Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Decline at 22? You cant be serious. You must live around a bunch of losers who have crappy genetics and dont take care of themselvesMy older female cousin got married for the first time, 2 years ago at the age of 39. What does that tells then??? It's pathetic listening to those losers saying we're hopeless in the dating pool after age 22. If that's the only stage those men are focusing at then they're not even the types I would even want to talk to in the first place.
Shaun-Dro Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 (edited) What about women your age? As I have gotten older, I have consistently found women my own age the hottest, and sometimes older (late 20s women ). I've touched on the subject of older women many times. But to answer you, once in a while I might see a woman over 30 attractive but I refuse to put in any work to obtain her if she's going to be difficult. A woman in her 30s better make it easy and straightforward for me to get a chance. I'm at a point where I don't take any woman seriously. And that's because they always say one thing and do something different. Then come back to me with silly reasons to justify their actions that make little sense to me. At least with a young girl, I expect her to be foolish for the most part but since I'm not settling down with them, I know how to work around it much easier. I can practically anticipate their next move and respond accordingly. Edited July 29, 2012 by Shaun-Dro missed a word
ThaWholigan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I've touched on the subject of older women many times. But to answer you, once in a while I might see a woman over 30 attractive but I refuse to put in any work to obtain her if she's going to be difficult. A woman in her 30s better make it easy and straightforward for me to get a chance. I'm at a point where I don't take any woman seriously. And that's because they always say one thing and do something different. Then come back to me with silly reasons to justify their actions that make little sense to me. At least with a young girl, I expect her to be foolish for the most part but since I'm not settling down with them, I know how to work around it much easier. I can practically anticipate their next move and respond accordingly. If you don't mind me asking - what constitutes as being difficult? And you should know that women don't always make decisions based on logic. Not that that is bad (a lot of men are the same, very illogical sometimes), but a woman will trust her emotions and intuition more than logic - even if she's wrong. I know many women who it happens to - even the smartest, most logical women I know, and I have known quite a few in my life.
Negative Nancy Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 He probably means the kind of 30+ women who have had their fun and want to settle down. Which translates into I've banged every hot guy up until now and now you get to wait 45 dates to even get a glimpse of my well ridden vagina, you also need to like kids because my ovaries are going off like a Howitzer cannon. As if men don't do the same. Who wanted to settle down in their early 20s here? Any male takers? Yeah, didn't think so. 1
Shaun-Dro Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 If you don't mind me asking - what constitutes as being difficult? And you should know that women don't always make decisions based on logic. Not that that is bad (a lot of men are the same, very illogical sometimes), but a woman will trust her emotions and intuition more than logic - even if she's wrong. I know many women who it happens to - even the smartest, most logical women I know, and I have known quite a few in my life. That's what irks me about her so much: the lack of logic. I can't take it. I consider myself a very logical person. I've gotten that trait from my father who was a long time machinist. He used nothing but logic to build things in to a design that it could never come apart. I admired him for that. With women, I can forgive them for lacking logic and going with emotions all through their teens, and the early part of their 20s, but not when she's pass that age. There's just no excuse for it and I won't tolerate it. After a while, we, as people, have to learn from our past mistakes and not repeat them. It's called growth and maturity. And because most women go with their emotions on how they choose men it's no wonder they pick the worst ones: the players and deceivers. They need to use both logic and emotion as a balance to succeed in the dating world. And a bit of common sense as well. So, until then, it will always be rough for them in the dating field until they learn from this.
ThaWholigan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 That's what irks me about her so much: the lack of logic. I can't take it. I consider myself a very logical person. I've gotten that trait from my father who was a long time machinist. He used nothing but logic to build things in to a design that it could never come apart. I admired him for that. With women, I can forgive them for lacking logic and going with emotions all through their teens, and the early part of their 20s, but not when she's pass that age. There's just no excuse for it and I won't tolerate it. After a while, we, as people, have to learn from our past mistakes and not repeat them. It's called growth and maturity. And because most women go with their emotions on how they choose men it's no wonder they pick the worst ones: the players and deceivers. They need to use both logic and emotion as a balance to succeed in the dating world. And a bit of common sense as well. So, until then, it will always be rough for them in the dating field until they learn from this. OR maybe, as a man, we need to stop trying to logically seduce them, and be emotionally intelligent enough to augment our approach without losing our authenticity. Then it won't seem so difficult. Age or not, it's much easier for me to understand without it frustrating me. Maybe I just see it from a different angle? ... 1
Dismantled Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 My friend now has no money, no job, average height and looks but a gorgeous girl friend who pursued him. His personality is great though. You're probably under-rating him, and exagerrating the "gorgeous girl", women tend to think 90% of men are ugly and 90% of women are "gorgeous". Women even have the nerve to claim America Ferrera is "gorgeous":sick:
ThaWholigan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 You're probably under-rating him, and exagerrating the "gorgeous girl", women tend to think 90% of men are ugly and 90% of women are "gorgeous". Women even have the nerve to claim America Ferrera is "gorgeous":sick: I'd f*ck the snot out of America Ferrera. Just saying.....
Dismantled Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I'd f*ck the snot out of America Ferrera. Just saying..... What would her male equivalent be considered? A 4? You better believe no women would be calling him "gorgeous" or "hot" .
ThaWholigan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 What would her male equivalent be considered? A 4? You better believe no women would be calling him "gorgeous" or "hot" . Maybe not, but he's probably boning somebody .
brahmabull117 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I'd f*ck the snot out of America Ferrera. Just saying..... She's fat
ThaWholigan Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 She's fat I don't mind chubby girls , some of them are sexy. I'll happily poke a size 16 . Like Ashley Graham.....
Shaun-Dro Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 (edited) OR maybe, as a man, we need to stop trying to logically seduce them, and be emotionally intelligent enough to augment our approach without losing our authenticity. Then it won't seem so difficult. Age or not, it's much easier for me to understand without it frustrating me. Maybe I just see it from a different angle? ... Yea you do. I'm not going to put in that kind of work when in return more than half of them aren't even worth the trouble. Been there done that. I'm happier just taking them as I see them and knowing which ones to avoid, as opposed to the ones I can hit on without the hassle of going beyond my character just to attract them. No thanks! Edited July 30, 2012 by Shaun-Dro error
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 He probably means the kind of 30+ women who have had their fun and want to settle down. I sincerely don't get this mentalty but I have heard it a lot around message board land. People visably bitter that other people's priorities change with age. I am not out looking for guys that banged lots of women, but if I dated a guy that had his fair share of sexual escapades in his youth and now wanted to settle down, and he changes his dating pattern because of that, why would that make me embittered? The reality is that as we get older,our priorities are going to change. Some people will have a lot of sexual experience and eventually come to a place where that is no longer fulfilling to them and they will want a more serious commitment. Other people won't come to that place at all. I'm not saying you have to be with a woman if you believe sexual history is important in context of number of people they slept with. I just don't get the bitterness about it.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 OR maybe, as a man, we need to stop trying to logically seduce them, and be emotionally intelligent enough to augment our approach without losing our authenticity. Then it won't seem so difficult. Age or not, it's much easier for me to understand without it frustrating me. Maybe I just see it from a different angle? ... Dude, this is golden.
Woggle Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I don't judge somebody who had their fun and wild times and looks back on it without bitterness but I have seen some women who spent a long time dating jerks and now have huge manhating and trust issues because of it. Any guy they date will be made to suffer the sins of these men and the relationship be like getting indicted everyday for crimes other men committed. No sane person wants to be in that position. If she just got wild and doesn't blame the male gender for her mistakes then no problem though. 1
123321 Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 Actually it is about what I believe. Because what I believe will be dependent on how I live my life and the kind of people I choose to spend time with. OK, so you just said that what you believe is controlled by how you live. Is that what you meant? Or were you trying to say that how you live is controlled by what you believe? A case could be made for either one but only the second one makes sense in the context.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 OK, so you just said that what you believe is controlled by how you live. Is that what you meant? Or were you trying to say that how you live is controlled by what you believe? A case could be made for either one but only the second one makes sense in the context. Yes, the second is what I meant. Your belief system is going to be what determines the choices you make to live your life. Do you actually agree with me on something
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