Bob_Funk Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I'm tired of this "better with age" hogwash that's so popular on forums and in the media. The truth is beauty is the only thing worth having, and youth is beauty. On paper, I appear to have a really good life right now. I'm self-sufficient, make great money compared to my peers, and am getting laid more than ever (escorts). But I'd give all that up to not have 18 year old girls immediately dismiss me as a potential romantic prospect based on my age.
mesmerized Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I'd see my doctor if I were you as there seem to be some severe mental issues going on for you. 7
brahmabull117 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Some of you guys' here obsession with teenage girls is really really creepy I really hope you're all trolling 7
veggirl Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 How old are you? And what would you do with the 18 year old when she gasp turns 19? lol how large of a window do you think men have to bag your average 18 yr old girl? You're crazy. 1
brahmabull117 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 How old are you? And what would you do with the 18 year old when she gasp turns 19? lol how large of a window do you think men have to bag your average 18 yr old girl? You're crazy. Ignore these guys, they are either freaks or trolls (or both)
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 How old are you? And what would you do with the 18 year old when she gasp turns 19? lol how large of a window do you think men have to bag your average 18 yr old girl? You're crazy. 25. It's not like women become witches to me after 18. I'm actually corresponding with a 47 year old online right now. But my preference will always be those young college aged girls. It just sucks I'll never get to experience being with one. All those years of being studious while my female classmates were using their prime years to bang football players. And what's my reward? Paid sex and cougars.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I don't understand why you think that girls in college now should be rewarding you because you were studious when you were in school. I also don't understand why 18 year old girls shouldn't be banging hot young 18 year old male football players. I don't think most 18 year old girls are looking to settle down, get married or bang much older guys. All in all, your thoughts appear to require some help per a professional. And not a professional escort. Being a 25 year old guy, you are doing yourself no favors by paying for sex instead of learning to relate to women around your own age. The older you get, the harder it will be for you to relate to women if you don't go through those struggles now. I actually think it's important for both young women and men to learn about how to relate to the other sex, even in all it's ups and downs and learn how to be more giving toward another human being and learning of what you need as well. While not all the relationships I had where ultimately right for me, I certainly learned important things from them. Both about what I needed and it taught me how to relate to men better and be less selfish. If all you do is pay women to sleep with you and jerk off to porn, or laminate over teenage girls you are never going to learn those things. 5
USMCHokie Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 But my preference will always be those young college aged girls. It just sucks I'll never get to experience being with one. All those years of being studious while my female classmates were using their prime years to bang football players. And what's my reward? Paid sex and cougars. I don't understand why you think that girls in college now should be rewarding you because you were studious when you were in school. I also don't understand why 18 year old girls shouldn't be banging hot young 18 year old male football players. Jealousy. He wants to have what those football players during college got to have that he never did. 1
Author Bob_Funk Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 I don't understand why you think that girls in college now should be rewarding you because you were studious when you were in school. I also don't understand why 18 year old girls shouldn't be banging hot young 18 year old male football players. I don't think most 18 year old girls are looking to settle down, get married or bang much older guys. All in all, your thoughts appear to require some help per a professional. And not a professional escort. Being a 25 year old guy, you are doing yourself no favors by paying for sex instead of learning to relate to women around your own age. The older you get, the harder it will be for you to relate to women if you don't go through those struggles now. I actually think it's important for both young women and men to learn about how to relate to the other sex, even in all it's ups and downs and learn how to be more giving toward another human being and learning of what you need as well. While not all the relationships I had where ultimately right for me, I certainly learned important things from them. Both about what I needed and it taught me how to relate to men better and be less selfish. If all you do is pay women to sleep with you and jerk off to porn, or laminate over teenage girls you are never going to learn those things. Well, girls my own age won't have me either. After all, female hypergamy doesn't end after college. Just read all the posts on here from women in their 30's whose standards are still sky high. If a guy doesn't literally look like he stepped out of a Calvin Klein magazine cover and has the status of an LA socialite, he's not even in the running. And no, I'm not batting out of my league. I have an average chiselled face on an above average body, dress stylishly, and am sociable. Here are my dating criteria: - under 40 - not obese That's it! And I can't even that.
samsungxoxo Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 (edited) The OP is my age but damn, he sounds like a creep going after high schoolers (more than likely an 18 year-old girl can still be in high school or hardly even started college). Is the OP going to be with 18 year-olds in his 30's and 40's as well too? :sick: Edited July 28, 2012 by samsungxoxo 3
kaylan Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Lol OP is fail. Men havent even grown until full men until early 20s, and even then, peak muscle mass is around the mid 20s. Look it up, the average age for peak olympic male athletes is mid 20s. For women Id say its about the same....early to mid 20s. 18 year olds look like kids mostly, and havent grown into themselves fully yet. Why else do you think most super models, actresses, and swim suit gals all peak in their empirical sex appeal in their 20s? And what 18 year old girl wants some older dude trolling for her? Especially one who puts the puzzy on the pedestal and is willing to trade his life away for teenagers. Jeez 2
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Jealousy. He wants to have what those football players during college got to have that he never did. The grass is always greener somewhere else I guess.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Well, girls my own age won't have me either. After all, female hypergamy doesn't end after college. Just read all the posts on here from women in their 30's whose standards are still sky high. If a guy doesn't literally look like he stepped out of a Calvin Klein magazine cover and has the status of an LA socialite, he's not even in the running. And no, I'm not batting out of my league. I have an average chiselled face on an above average body, dress stylishly, and am sociable. Here are my dating criteria: - under 40 - not obese That's it! And I can't even that. But if you are 25, you shouldn't be going for women 30+. I think you should date women 21+. And I say 21 because at 21 they can legally drink. It is ackward to date someone that can't legally drink when you can. And you are so wrong about the Calvin Klein thing. I infact hate really pretty guys actually. I don't like really buff guys either. I know lots of girls like me. I have been attracted to so many different kinds of men. Some yes where stereotypically handsome and some weren't. One man that I really fell for was probably even not attractive by most standards. Here is a very important secret about women..I will give you two infact. 1) Women really like strength in men. However, this DOES NOT mean he has to be strong in EVERYWAY. Some women really like smart men, some women really like funny men, some women like physically strong men. Find something *you* like and *you* are good at and build on that strength and have confidence in that strength and a woman will be attracted. None of my friends like the same thing in a guy! Thankfully because we would fight over the same guy if we did. 2) You may think your critera should make it easier for you. But women don't want to be with men that have such low standards and don't know much about themselves that all they look for is under a certain age and weight. This is not going to be seen as a positive by most women because it doesn't get women excited to be with a guy that's just with her because she isn't too old or fat. It's not even realistic to have such limited expectations. You might not have enough dating experience to know yet but you are very realistically going to have many other needs and wants in a person that go beyond the two you listed. As you should too, within reason. Women like men that know about themselves to know what they want in a woman. Having such low expectations that only pertain to the physical of a woman tells me that you don't really see women as people still and you don't know enough about yourself to think of women outside of their physical bodies. Just try getting to know women. Stop wishing to bang 18 year olds. Most women don't want to be with men that wish to bang 18 year olds. 1
threebyfate Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 (edited) Well, girls my own age won't have me either. After all, female hypergamy doesn't end after college. Just read all the posts on here from women in their 30's whose standards are still sky high. If a guy doesn't literally look like he stepped out of a Calvin Klein magazine cover and has the status of an LA socialite, he's not even in the running. And no, I'm not batting out of my league. I have an average chiselled face on an above average body, dress stylishly, and am sociable. Here are my dating criteria: - under 40 - not obese That's it! And I can't even that.If you're relying on hookers, something's terribly wrong with this picture. To expand on this, if you are what you describe yourself as, dates and relationships should happen organically and without much effort. That you're having such difficulty, represents how your perception of self appears to be wildly skewed. Edited July 28, 2012 by threebyfate 2
ThaWholigan Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I can't believe I'm going to say this, as I don't generally do but.......... pics or gtfo....
ascendotum Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 (edited) The grass is always greener somewhere else I guess. If bobby boy got himself some loving 18/19 yr old gf, chances are he would be very grateful to catch up with what he missed out on back in that time. He'd be busy cutting her grass and it would be plenty green for him to not be too worried about the color of other girl's grass. xoxo - Majority of 18yr olds are not bubble gum blowing, pig tails, knee high socks, hello kitty crop top, beiber fever, gullible giggly juniors. They do go to university, drive trucks, sail yachts and train in the army/police too, as well as star as page 3 girls in newpapers. Granted the heading of his thread is over the top bleak, still why does nature have guys reach their supposed sexual peak in their teens. Edited July 29, 2012 by ascendotum 1
O'farrell Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Men sure as hell don't. The penis isn't done growing and neither is the height or body.
Eclypse Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 OP is a little odd, although there are probably lots of guys that think like him. I'm 21 now and Ive hooked up with a few girls over the years. I honestly don't think there is all that much difference between girls aged 16 to 25. Youngest I made out with was 14. It was all good fun. I probably wouldn't go any younger than 18 now as they wouldn't be able to go out to bars (although I don't go to many myself). Young girls are hot. At this stage of my life I wouldn't date anyone over 25 probably. However I doubt I'll still be into 18 year olds when I'm in my late 20s. 1
kaylan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 ^I hope to god you werent 21 when you kissed that 14 year old. Thatd just be OD creepy. And if you cant see the difference in women as they get older from 16 to 25, then you really have no idea how the maturing works, mentally or physically.
madjac74 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Well, girls my own age won't have me either. After all, female hypergamy doesn't end after college. Just read all the posts on here from women in their 30's whose standards are still sky high. If a guy doesn't literally look like he stepped out of a Calvin Klein magazine cover and has the status of an LA socialite, he's not even in the running. And no, I'm not batting out of my league. I have an average chiselled face on an above average body, dress stylishly, and am sociable. Here are my dating criteria: - under 40 - not obese That's it! And I can't even that. Because you said hypergamy is why you arent banging anyone under 400 years old 1
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 If bobby boy got himself some loving 18/19 yr old gf, chances are he would be very grateful to catch up with what he missed out on back in that time. He'd be busy cutting her grass and it would be plenty green for him to not be too worried about the color of other girl's grass. xoxo - Majority of 18yr olds are not bubble gum blowing, pig tails, knee high socks, hello kitty crop top, beiber fever, gullible giggly juniors. They do go to university, drive trucks, sail yachts and train in the army/police too, as well as star as page 3 girls in newpapers. Granted the heading of his thread is over the top bleak, still why does nature have guys reach their supposed sexual peak in their teens. Bullcrap. Bobby isn't happy with himself. No 18 year old girl is going to change that. He is making teenage girls his holy grail and that's not healthy. 18 year old girls are people, just like anyone else. And they very well might train in the army and drive trucks but they are still 18 full of all kinds of growing up to do and imperfections like anyone else. Regardless, 25 year old guys shouldn't be setting up 18 year old girls as the holy grail to his happiness.
Eclypse Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 ^I hope to god you werent 21 when you kissed that 14 year old. Thatd just be OD creepy. And if you cant see the difference in women as they get older from 16 to 25, then you really have no idea how the maturing works, mentally or physically. No I wasn't 21. And really, there isn't all that much difference, at least to me. But I am known to be bad at guessing ages. I can sometimes be 7-8 years off the truth. Someone before guessed my own age to be 34. I don't get what you mean by mentally. I know some 25 year old girls who get plastered every weekend and live the bum life, whereas my girlfriend, who was 20 when we began dating was always very studious, hard working and sensible. Theres a lot of variation. 1
kaylan Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 ^If you cant see the difference in most people between the ages of 16 and 25, then oh wells dude....I guess your bad at seeing those things. Exceptions dont make the rules. Most teenagers act like immature children, and most people in their 20s are adults finally getting into the real world. Their behaviors are worlds apart.
Revolver Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Women peak in their late teens and early to mid 20's when their young and beautiful men peak in their 30's when their mature and succesful 1
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