blue_jay_bird Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Can some one love you and not see a future with you or want to marry you? To me this seems like the biggest lie. Is it?
Ruby65 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 "I don't believe in marriage" is right up there with "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now" or "It's not you, it's me"...... Just my opinion but I'd never date a man who said those words to me. HUGE red flag.
Buttercup84 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Before I met my previous boyfriend I wasn't keen on marriage , kids yes but I am not religious so it wasn't that important . But being with him made me think about it and see how nice it can be being with someone ... So I would love to get married one day . But some people just don't see the need to get married , and they might find someone who feels the same . But often when someone says that it means " I just don't want to marry you " sorry to be harsh .
Author blue_jay_bird Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 But often when someone says that it means " I just don't want to marry you " sorry to be harsh . thats not harsh, i understood it that way when he said it.
Buttercup84 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I am sorry hun . In my opinion those people are cowards for that being honest with you . You don't want to hear it now , but you want to be with someone who will never want to let you go , and they will know that they want to marry you ( and they will let you know ) You will be Ok .
YorickBrown Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 "Don't marry someone you can LIVE WITH, marry someone you can't LIVE WITHOUT"
Author blue_jay_bird Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 I love my friends and family... I dont want to marry them But if you had to sign a contract saying you don't want to lose your family. I think you would sign it.
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