Glass Bead Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I've just been working with a woman that I've met before and that there has been some flirting on the past but never progressed to something concrete. Before we have kept expectations at a zero and it started that way now. On the first four days we basically kept distance from one another because of work pressure and being surrounded by more than a hundred people at the same event. But then we just spent one evening dancing and talking to one another most of the night and on the next days we spent most of the free time together. One night the dinner is getting very nice until we are discussing trust in our group of people and she mentions that if she betrayed her boyfriend she would have to tell him. She completely freezes over and I already know about it so I say nothing and when I'm walking her back to her hotel I don't try to say or do anything. The next and last day I tell her I really enjoyed the conversation and we spend the afternoon together but not alone. Then at dinner, there's only the two of us and a friend of mine and she starts saying that she wants to go back to my country and we start getting all warmed up again and I invite her to come and we start discussing dates for next year. I then decide to tell her the story of my previous relationship, which has a lot of similarities with ours, since it also took place in a similar event. She gets completely curious but when I tell her the person (which she knows) she's shocked because of whom she is and what she did. At the end she says: that's why I never get involved with 'our organization' people. That wasn't new information for me but was good to hear it from her and I gave no reply but my friend started discussing with her about the cases we have of people getting involved until the conversation quickly died. We decided then to get up and meet the rest of the group on a party where we just seat away from one another and talk to the others. After a while she announces that she's leaving to get back home tomorrow but I decide to stay longer. So we hug and say goodbye, nice seeing you, and when I'm pulling away she says: and I'll see you next year at the latest. It just sounded weird to me, so I asked: at the latest? She then smiled and replied: if not sooner. That felt just weird - I didn't reply, turned my back to her and decided to forget about it so I simply sat and resumed talking to other person and didn't look again at her. But now that I've put some space I really don't know what I want from here. Any ideas?
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