johncooper Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 i was new to the office and i saw this lonely girl and started a small conversation which made her to know my intrest on her.next day she spoke smiling and cracking jokes but the conver was abt work.next day she spoke of work and little of her personal...but third day she was speaking of too much of her personal things like marriage,the guys who are intrested in her,she tells she is not intrested in marriage or relation..i have a crush on her and she sees it,i dont know whether she tells this to make me jealous,but i responded very cooly like as if i cared...but gave her advices on her problems..she even tells how she feels about the male colleagues sexually.she is very uncertain about her future...she also asks me about my ideas on marriage and other things ..why does she tells me.
ladyabstrused Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 There could be many reasons..it's really hard to say which was hers. She could be interested in you, she could be wondering about those things and thought you were someone she could conversate with on those things. Why don't you just ask her, like what darkmoon said above?
Author johncooper Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 i will ask.....but i was wondering whether a girl will talk to someone who she barely knows abt her secrets ......my friend says girls will talk to either a person who they trust or whom they have a love intrest...what abt this
g450 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Congrats, you are her new girlfriend. You have been friendzoned LOL. Good luck with that. I would just start ignoring her. 1
OsiStruck Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 sounds like she's a co*k tease.... she's definitely not ready to settle down and be involved in a ltr
Author johncooper Posted July 29, 2012 Author Posted July 29, 2012 Congrats, you are her new girlfriend. You have been friendzoned LOL. Good luck with that. I would just start ignoring her. ya dude ...i too was getting the same idea...but new info is she is a divorcee with child.....reason was husband was over controlling ...and always doubted her.....she does not knows that i know this...but is she testing me to know my character of either i will be a controlling hus or a free guy......she is a young single mom..her questions revolve around family opinions and other settling down ideas of me
ladyabstrused Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Reading back your OP, she doesn't sound like she's ready to settle down again. Do you want something to come out of this with her?..do you have feelings for her? I'm not sure cos you didn't sound like you were but then if you're wondering a lot then does that mean you are interested in her?
veggirl Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 She is bragging either just for the attention or to make herself seem more desirable to you. I would just say "yeah that's nice, I'm not really interested in hearing about that though"
proseandpassion Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I don't know, but either way she sounds like a weirdo.
phineas Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Errrr, you are supposed to let a woman know you are interested by asking her out. Not by telling her then NOT asking her out. You have been launched, try to respect the personal space of her other orbiters.
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