Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 ...your attraction? I am not talking about wearing certain things or doing their hair a certain way or having certain body parts. What are things girls have done in your personal experiences that was part of their character that you found really attractive and endearing?
Pyro Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 having an intellectual conversation and not being clingy. 3
ptp Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Make me laugh. Very few women that I have run across are genuinely funny. 2
MrCastle Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Make me laugh. Very few women that I have run across are genuinely funny. This, kind of. Not so much making me laugh per say; but being invested enough to try and be funny. Some girls I feel like I'm a performer, hired free of charge to entertain her. Always having to text first, make jokes, set up dates, etc. A woman who puts in 50% on her end so I can put in my 50% as opposed to her putting in 0% and me putting in 100% is a real turn on. 5
jobaba Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 (edited) In a conscious, non emotional sense? -Appear non shallow. Hang out with people who are socially backwards or lacking. Hang out with people regardless of thier attractiveness. A woman who likes the little people. -Modesty -Do volunteer work or have a job in philanthropy -Have a passion for playing music Edited July 28, 2012 by jobaba 1
ThaWholigan Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 (edited) When I started to understand subtext, I became attracted to it in girls. So I love when girls are verbally intelligent. When they can manipulate the English language to such an extent that they could be saying 5 things in one sentence, and I can understand each different thing that she is saying to me at that given moment, and me reciprocating acknowledges that this game we're playing is fun, enjoyable and risque. I also like when a girl moves a certain way, her expression tells me a lot about her character. When a girl moves freely, and slightly overt and graceful. It can be such a beautiful thing ..... I like girls who are artistic too........A girl who can draw, or sing, or play an instrument . :love::love: Edited July 28, 2012 by ThaWholigan
thatone Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 having an intellectual conversation and not being clingy. agree. i don't need/want/like submissive women, i want my equal. 1
sid3 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Shutting up and leaving me alone. Im not kidding either, I once had a girlfriend from Ukraine who, when I was really busy working/studying, would come up to my office, drop off a drink and some fantastic food, kiss me on the cheek and leave me alone. My girlfriend is from Poland and she's the same way.
Badsingularity Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Humility, positive attitude, happy vibe, general intelligence, emotional intelligence, open mindedness, feminine behavior and movement, loves men for being men, ability to think for herself 3
Ninjainpajamas Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Well to use an example of something I've noticed recently that has increased my attraction to someone I see while she's working, on a semi-regular basis; At first I noticed her because she was attractive physically, so she stands out in that way and obviously not just to me but other men who are more open and forthcoming about their attraction. However judging from that alone I was still neutral towards her in terms of likability, I didn't respond to her favorable based on her attraction and I treat everyone there the same. Over the course of seeing her and how she treats her customers/clients/patients I noticed that she's very kind and considerate, much more so than her fellow co-workers. She's at work and doing her job but you can tell she is genuine in her actions, she's just a nice person and honestly If I were to just judge her on her body language and posture I would think she may be rather mean or somewhat of a bitch, she just kind of gives off that vibe non-verbally. She's not smiling or merrily walking around waving and greeting everyone like she's a parade princess, she kind of walks with a motivated strut and purpose and is more focused. When someone flirts with her she doesn't turn her nose up or makes a face or act awkward, she just smiles and moves along with whatever she is doing, she seems unaffected (professional yet courteous)...she's just personable and tries to make people comfortable even If it's not the person she's currently assisting. She also talks to you like a person, not just completely formal. Now she could easily get away at this place doing much less and she'd fit right in, her co-workers aren't necessarily rude just more introverted, less personable and not conversationalist. It's just not a very customer servicey place. Today she actually looked really nice and combined with her personality I almost spilled the beans because I wanted to comment on how nice she looked today and that I can tell her service Is really appreciated by everyone...but I didn't want to cross that line and come off flirtatious (even though I'm fairly good at subtle compliments) It's not my intention to try and gain or peak her interest, I just want to be incognito and a just a regular blending in kinda guy here so I didn't...but her kindness and attitude, maybe even vibrance is definitely attractive especially combined with her physical appeal...and I wouldn't consider her a bombshell beauty or anything, but she's definitely increased her appeal, for myself looks is not everything or even always a big factor I'm more attracted to good women with desirable qualities and that's why she stands out to me. 4
Woggle Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 The way she treats people and in general past men she has dated.
monkey00 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 loyalty, interested in me as a person, witty banter, geekiness, sincerity, honesty, generosity, humility, understanding, self-respect, non-judgmental ...in a nutshell being down-to-earth. None of that BS or pretentiousness, just the real girl behind that pretty smile or nice clothing. I find low maintenance girls to be the most natural and attractive so far. There are too much fake and pretentious people in the world these days. It's just nice to be with someone who's real with nothing to hide....shed the insecurities and strip down the wall!
Weezy1973 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Intelligence and logic. And posture. Posture is a vastly underrated attractor. 1
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