truth_seeker Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Some of my girl friends have OLD profiles and they've admitted that they only have them to get compliments from guys... They're attractive and don't need a dating side to find someone. One of them gets a couple HUNDRED messages a day. She never responds, she just reads all of the "You're beautiful", "You're sexy", etc. The other girl responds, but has no intention of ever meeting them. Attention whores, what can yah do... Ignore them.
Author The_Reginald Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 Are you sure she deleted it? It could be hidden. Well she definitely didn't block me because I searched for her using a different account and didn't find her. So it was either deleted or disabled by her or a mod.
Meg717 Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 It's funny to me that this topic is going by today bc I had an interesting encounter with a man on a dating site. Most of the time I will delete/disable my OKC account if I get fed up with the men that are contacting me. However, if I was talking to a guy that interested me I would get their contact info and continue off the dating site or one time I realized I wasn't ready to date (bc of an incident with me ex) and sent a message to the guys I was talking to and explained the situation and disabled the account. That's just rude that she disappeared. So far, I agree I hate OLD but I live in a rural area so it's kind of hard to meet guys....
Author The_Reginald Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 I have been playing this song on a continuous loop since she deleted her account lol
SmileFace Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I have been playing this song on a continuous loop since she deleted her account lol What would you do if someone actually broke up with you, my word. Lol
Author The_Reginald Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 What would you do if someone actually broke up with you, my word. Lol This
yongyong Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Guys!! look at this way. You are at a bar and see most girls getting hit on by guys. Do you get mad by saying 'geez, Girls get approached but I don't get approached by girls WTF' LOL?????? That's how it is! What are guy's intention in this situation anyways? I am sure women are as frustrated as men on OLD. I was talking to this single mom. She was saying how she still gets pursued by guys on OLD. I wanted to tell her the Truth. ('hey how many guys do you think want to really date you and meet your kids in the future? I am pretty sure 90% guys just want to come over to your house while your kids are in bed, bang the sxit out of you, jizz on your face and leave') I didn't want to shatter her hope... Guys get frustrated because they don't end up banging chicks they have been talking to. Girls get frustrated because they found this good guy they like, decided to spread their legs and swallowed his cum but he somehow disappeared later. (I bet 100% girls on OLD have this experience.....it's ok you don't have to admit, we know it already lol) 1
Author The_Reginald Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 Well I would be perfectly ok with a one night stand but I really do want an actual girlfriend lol.
thatone Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Well I would be perfectly ok with a one night stand but I really do want an actual girlfriend lol. you are NEVER going to find that on the internet. you clearly have little/no experience with women, so why would you think that putting the internet in between your initial meeting of one would make the result turn out any different?
yongyong Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 In the beginning, I used to get mad like any other guys. how can you not get mad? (girl disappears after exchanging many messages, she gave me a number but didn't even reply when I txted her, we set up the date but she flaked out in the end and so on) Now I just accepted the reality. I just treat them like serious ADHD kid who changes mind all the time. I don't expect a lot so I get irritated less. Men and women consistently want different things from each other. I guess that's natures form of population control. Both sides get annoyed and bitter about it if they never find someone on the same page as them. One thing I can say is if you're currently bitter or angry about past relationships or a recent break-up.. DON'T go to an Online dating site. It will make you even more bitter. You really have to be VERY lighthearted with OLD.
Author The_Reginald Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 you are NEVER going to find that on the internet. you clearly have little/no experience with women, so why would you think that putting the internet in between your initial meeting of one would make the result turn out any different? wtf are you talking about lol? Its not like I have never had a girlfriend before. I don't understand what you even mean could you word that differently?
thatone Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 it is like you've never had a girlfriend before. if you had you wouldn't be so upset about a fake girl you never saw in person.
todreaminblue Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 The first girl out of like 20 to message me back god damn deletes her account the next day. We sent back and forth like 20 messages. And then this morning I find shes gone. I mean I know this kind of **** is typical with online dating but god damn it a simple goodbye would have been nice yes it would it is disrespectful and hurtful...if someone intentionally did that with no thought of what you felt or was feeling.......my enemies are shown more respect by me....but thats the way i live my life not everyone is as damged as me....to think of others first takes time and practice......try again....i fi ever am undamaged keep track of me...i have a little hope growing in my heart it came out when i shed some tears in here adn with the thought that i might be respected for5 who i am it is seeding......how cool is that i might get out in the world and travel....im going to circumnavigate adn meet unknown friends.....smilin......dont give up....im here and subscribed.... .....try again....have hope pay for a membership the best you can afford go e harmony....best wishes.....deb 1
Author The_Reginald Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 it is like you've never had a girlfriend before. if you had you wouldn't be so upset about a fake girl you never saw in person. Well I was kinda joking lol. Yes I was disappointing but its not like I am going to kill myself lol.
Author The_Reginald Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 In lighter news a new girl has messaged me back a few times just now so I'll let you guys know how it goes. So far my record is around 40 girls messaged and 3 replies. http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DywXkL2Afeo/T3OYoKzjQsI/AAAAAAAAEN8/1z0n0zg38LE/s400/angry_kid_answer_1_xlarge.jpeg
Author The_Reginald Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 God damn it. Ok I need a judges ruling here. So This new girl and I have been sending messages back and forth a few times. And now shes just replying with really short replies like yup and ya i love the promonade. Has she lost interest already lol? Should I ask for her number or give it a day or two?
yongyong Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 I reply with the same short message to see if they will change their attitude. I think it will be going nowhere. Hit on other girls. Let me tell you. Don't look at these girls other than just a pusxy. They have just bangable pusxy, that's it. Do you think they will give a damn about how you are genuinely interested? I used to try to connect with them 'Oh she has this hobby I like, maybe we can be a good match. Oh she has this personality I like, I think we will have a good time. Oh she has this career I am in, maybe we can work towards the same goal. Oh she traveled this country I wanted to visit, I'd love to hear her story.' As you put more emotion to some chick online, you will get frustrated more when someone just disappears. I just look at them no more than a girl I just want to bang. If something develops after banging that chicks, that's fine too. God damn it. Ok I need a judges ruling here. So This new girl and I have been sending messages back and forth a few times. And now shes just replying with really short replies like yup and ya i love the promonade. Has she lost interest already lol? Should I ask for her number or give it a day or two?
g450 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 here here. meeting people in bars it is Hey that's how I met my current wife. Come to think of it, that also how I met my XW LOL. It works.
g450 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Some of my girl friends have OLD profiles and they've admitted that they only have them to get compliments from guys... They're attractive and don't need a dating side to find someone. One of them gets a couple HUNDRED messages a day. She never responds, she just reads all of the "You're beautiful", "You're sexy", etc. The other girl responds, but has no intention of ever meeting them. Attention whores, what can yah do... And that is why when I was dating I stopped sending messages. I simply kept my profile up and let them msg me. If they really wanted to date then they sure as hell would go looking at profiles themselves right? It was nice to be in control like that for a change. Didnt get many but I did get some. Throwing messages in 20 womens boxes each night is the equivalent of jig line fishing IMO. How desparate do you want to get?
truth_seeker Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 That's just rude that she disappeared. So far, I agree I hate OLD but I live in a rural area so it's kind of hard to meet guys.... This is why I gave up on it after trying it out for a bit. Someone said it on here, there are many women who like to have a profile up solely for attention. They have no true interest in meeting men. They just want to get messages and compliments. Some I believe have boyfriends and just need to feel wanted by other men. It's pathetic and just goes to show that these women are losers.
Author The_Reginald Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 Alright everyone I just asked for a girls number that ive been messaging since yesterday. THIS IS THE MOMENT OF TRUTH
LittlePrince Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 Aren't we all so glad we are too good for OLD?
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