Locke Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Alright so to start off let me just say, im just your average 16 year old. You know, like the one that most of you probably think knows nothing about relationships, and you might be right. I have had little to no serious relationships ever in my life, I have simply never felt strongly about any girl I have ever attempted to date, but when my mom met this guy and things got kinda serious and he asked us to move in.....I met his daughter that was my age. We were both 12 when this happened and got along extremely well. Let me also add that she is pretty much the perfect girl, very good looking, not fake, great personality, and fits the bill for all of my personal preferences. I might also add that every friend of mine I have introduced her to has liked her at some point. When I first met her 4 years ago I thought nothing more of her than just "hey a new family member" but now like I stated above, I am starting to see her in a different light. It doesnt help that she hints towards liking me too, we sometimes watch movies together....not weird you say......well it is, we usually watch them in my bed, if she doesnt like me why would she want me to watch movies with her in my room where the only object to sit/lay upon is a queen sized bed rather than watching movies in our THEATER room. Not to mention when watching scary movies she has the habit of burrowing her face into my chest or arm and saying my name. Also when watching a funny movie she doesnt miss a chance to laugh to the point that she lays her head on my shoulder. We also have the most serious of conversations that most people would only share with someone that they are really close to. We talk about subjects that I wouldnt talk about with anyone else, and it feels right. I honestly dont think much of myself but she always reassures me when im feeling down that I am a good guy. I am really confused on what I should do, I do like her dont get me wrong, but even though we dont live in the same house since she only comes down every other weekend or so, I think it would still make for an incredibly awkward relationship if she even feels the same way. We would more than likely have to keep it a secret as well. What should I do? This is honestly the first girl I have ever liked truthfully. Should I just push my feelings away and forget about it, or should I go for it? Am I sick for even thinking about it, we aren't related but still... Please help me.
Author Locke Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 She really isnt my step-sister considering my mom and her boyfriend havent got married yet and are probably never going to. I dont know if that really makes difference but I figured I might throw it in there.
gaius Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 (edited) I don't see any signs she's really into you. Girls that age can be physically affectionate with guys they are close to and feel safe with. My sister tries to sit in my lap on occasion, doesn't mean she wants to date me. You would be better served finding another girl to focus your attention on. Edited July 27, 2012 by gaius
Author Locke Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 I don't see any signs she's really into you. Girls that age can be physically affectionate with guys they are close to and feel safe with. My sister tries to sit in my lap on occasion, doesn't mean she wants to date me. You would be better served finding another girl to focus you're attention on. That was literally EXACTLY what I wanted to and needed to hear, I think I kinda already knew that, but I needed to hear another person say it. Thanks man. P.s. I think your situation there with your actual sister is a little different, but its still in the same boat.
gaius Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 That was literally EXACTLY what I wanted to and needed to hear, I think I kinda already knew that, but I needed to hear another person say it. Thanks man. P.s. I think your situation there with your actual sister is a little different, but its still in the same boat. Yeah it's a little different, just a good example. If something happens with your step-sister down the line then it happens but don't bring up anything or push it. Hope everything works out for you though. You're getting to the age where the world is your oyster.
Author Locke Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Very true indeed, thanks for the advice I appreciate it.
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