Triguluous Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 What would be some good conversational topics on a get-together with a girl for the first date. I usually just let the talk about anything cuz that is what they like to do, but I want good topics to steer the conversation ( not to were I want it to go, just to keep things moving and to keep me from carring the conversations) Any ideas, ladies, if you can think about the things that you were really glad a guy has asked you on a date what would they be, and what are things you don't feel comfortable being asked or just not talking about them at the time. I have some ideas of the things the girl I am going out with likes: she studies biology, she like rubins (sandwiches I think), she works at a lumber store, rides her bike like everywere and she works out all the time like 3-5 days a week. Very cute (that is what I think and that is what matters), hmmm. That all I can think about right now. hehe, please give me some advice and stories.
jen4 Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 I don't really think there are any set rules,you know,just see how things go. You may end up talking to her and get on a subject and then the conversation just flows so naturally that you talk for hours. If there are gaps then maybe talk about her job, her workout schedule,her studies,etc. We(women like to talk about ourselves) Tell her about yourself too. Oh and I'm sure you wouldn't but in case,don't ask about past sexual experience,that comes later,for most anyway. good luck! JEN
DeadByDawn Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 Breast Implants and kinky sex are always a good topic. Sure makes as a good ice breaker. I get all my women in bed after a night of conversational goodness. Hope it works out! ~Greg~
sinner Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 I don't know, DBD, but on my first dates (and I have alot of them for some reason) I usually talk about my scheduled penile reduction surgery and how my 2 week marriage to my 16 year old first cousin didn't work out. Both topics are real ice breakers.
DerangedAngel Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 I usually talk about my scheduled penile reduction surgery. Get it now or miss it, right? I'll have to spread that around to some of my male friends. -DA
sinner Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 DA, these are desperate times that call for desperate measures!
SnowWhite Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 The worst first date conversation would have to be one about religion. I spent over two hours once bored out of mind while this zealous christian tried to convert me and save my soul from damnation. ugh Worst date in my life.
SnowWhite Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 Originally posted by poopascoopafattyfat You want in the hole, not the heart. I mean come on you people the guy is calling to be laid, I mean come on. ALL THE GUY WANTS IS A BOOTY CALL WHAT ELSE ARE GIRLS GOOD FOR?!?! Wow glad to see mature and intelligent people like you on the message board giving out good advice. Can't wait to hear what other great advice you have to help enlighten us.
tiki Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 Like another poster said, things will hopefully flow naturally. You can still have a couple back ups though. Try convos on music, recent movies, favorite movies, what you'd like to accomplish before the summer's over, concerts, stuff like that. Definitely DO let her talk about herself. Yes, us women like this.
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