Jump to content

Ladies - Need some input on this


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

So I've had this on my mind and I know the opinions on this will probably greatly vary, but I just can't seem to find the right pace to set it at. This is all in context of out on dates.

 

By nature, I'm a pretty physical guy and I tend to show interest by touching and teasing. I've always been the type of guy that will hold a girl's hand and kiss her on the first date if I feel there is a connection, or if I'm not sure and want to test the waters.

 

I recently took this girl out a few times and everything really went great. She had contacted me after the 1st date and I asked her out again, where she basically cleared her schedule to make it, so she was interested at that point. For some reason I decided to move REALLY slow with her, and never initiated any kind of physical contact except for a hug and kiss on the cheek at the end of the 2nd date (actually she initiated the hug). I got friendzoned by her afterwards.

 

So my question is how much is too much, too soon? Maybe 2nd date for most women? Also, if I go to kiss her and get the cheek, that means she is just not into me right?

 

Thanks!

×
×
  • Create New...