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Awkwardness when you both know going back to your place means sex


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I went out with this girl 4 times and she refused my advances when she came back to my place. I'm going to give it a few more times at most. The thing is that now she is going to now know that if she goes into my apt at the end of the night that I will be trying again and this makes it awkward. When we go out again what is the best way to handle this? I'm afraid she is going to refuse to go back to my place just because of this and there is just more pressure now.

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She might not be interested.

 

Leave her completely alone for a couple of weeks.

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She might not be interested.

 

Leave her completely alone for a couple of weeks.

 

Forgot to mention that we were making out etc that night and before

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Flip the script. Go out with her, make out with her, and make her want it so bad she asks you to take her back to your place :bunny:

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what is the best way to handle this?

 

Duct Tape..:laugh:... I kid, I kid...

 

I like what XXOO posted.. make her want it soooo bad that she can't help but close the deal. It will mean putting a good deal of time and effort into what is known as foreplay :)

 

IME I found part of having great game was nothing more than good foreplay.

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Why should it be awkward to have sex with a woman? I don't get that.

 

When they obviously don't want it I suppose.

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I went out with this girl 4 times and she refused my advances when she came back to my place. I'm going to give it a few more times at most. The thing is that now she is going to now know that if she goes into my apt at the end of the night that I will be trying again and this makes it awkward. When we go out again what is the best way to handle this? I'm afraid she is going to refuse to go back to my place just because of this and there is just more pressure now.

 

Awkward how ?

 

She's a big girl, she probably heard about the bees and flowers, right ?

 

Do what XXOO suggested.

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Awkward how ?

 

She's a big girl, she probably heard about the bees and flowers, right ?

 

Do what XXOO suggested.

 

Maybe he isn't capable of that. And that is why he hasn't "sealed the deal".

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OP, are you in fact actually 14?

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I've heard that feeling awkward about sex causes poor erections and lack of lubrication.

 

I've heard feeling the need to pressure someone into sex can possibly lead to handcuffs, incarceration and getting pressured in the prison showers.

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